Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Has anyone had any SUCCESS lately??

Gulyaban

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joe12345 said:
damn if thats true i feel for you! look forward not back
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i sometimes think its a nightmare and gonna wake up..smiling is becuz of my anger to myself..inside is burning like hell...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DjVelvet

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I have just got promoted, earning $8000 per month. Highest earner among my peers. Guy friends respect me, looking forward to be like me. Good looking but skinny. Thus. going to hit the gym

I consider the greatest success as of now is to master my self-control of my emotions. I haven't mastered it. And i am putting my first step in now.
 

kingwilliam

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I am treading water financially, but my lifestyle is satisfying. In terms of women, I have been on a good streak for the last few months........sometimes I find myself trying to spin too much, but the rewards outweigh the effort. LIFE IS GOOOOOOD
 

int3l

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you reap what you sow. I've been a lazy bum these past few months so things are pretty ****ty but it's the here and now that matters. I guess knowing that's a form of success...now i just need to capitalize on it.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I am "The Francisco", that is my success! :D

Seriously, being able to genuinely like the person that you are right here, right now does wonders to your overall state of being.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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PlasticSurgeon said:
...I guess it shouldnt matter, a true DJ wouldnt care I guess but its definitely going to make work a lot more bearable. :eek: ...
Notice and appreciate the little things... :up:
 

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What I find strange...

...is that you're a surgeon that does well with women allegedly. Why are you on here? I don't lend much credibility to people who say 'boned'. I got a laugh out of the story though so thanks.
 

jophil28

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Listened to hot 40 something woman talk about how she " Did not do a very good job raising my two kids ." I managed to listen in a detached manner and resisted giving ANY ADVICE. I said almost nothing. After an hour she warmly thank me for "being there ".. Another charity job well done.
 
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