"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Has anyone had any SUCCESS lately??

squirrels

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 15, 2003
Messages
6,620
Reaction score
186
Age
47
Location
A universe...where heartbreak and sadness have bee
In women, finance, adventure, anything??

This forum really needs some positive energy. Any GOOD news from anyone?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

jophil28

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 18, 2006
Messages
5,216
Reaction score
278
Location
Gold Coast. Aust.
YOu are doing surgeries Monday ? Be careful that you don't get any blood spatter on that Armani - Ha !
( Could not resist that! )
 

jonwon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 8, 2006
Messages
1,439
Reaction score
53
just finsihed having sex with a 21 year old, blonde, now off to bed :D

life is a pleasure :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

STR8UP

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 10, 2002
Messages
6,911
Reaction score
125
My life pretty much sucks right now.
 

Mr.Positive

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 13, 2007
Messages
1,855
Reaction score
99
Everyone has something going on in our lives, whether we know it or not. A normal day for one person, is another persons nightmare...or fantasy.

I'm pondering life at the moment, because I almost lost mine at work today.

Goals are more positive, let's hear some lifetime goals!

I'll share one of mine...to sail around the world. :)
 

ThunderMaverick

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 19, 2004
Messages
1,945
Reaction score
70
Age
45
Last night I almost got hit by a drunk driver while walking down the street after dropping a chick off at her apartment. He careened towards me on the opposite lane. I jumped out of the way just before he ran over the curb and hit two parked cars.

I got the guy out of his car and the cops showed up.

He felt bad for almost killing me and wouldn't stop hugging me.

It was...beautiful.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

ThunderMaverick

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 19, 2004
Messages
1,945
Reaction score
70
Age
45
Oh I was successful at not getting killed, just to stay on the subject of this topic.
 

Victory Unlimited

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 3, 2005
Messages
1,357
Reaction score
313
Location
On the Frontlines
Success?


Well, after numerous personal traumas (deaths in my family, the loss of lifelong friendships, UNworthy female distractions, etc.), I have FINALLY fought my way out of the clutches of an ever-looming emotional "darkness"...

And after almost nearly a two-year interruption, I have managed to stir up my passion enough to resume writing my third book-----a new, multi-media format, action/thriller Detective Novel!:rockon:

I was already halfway through with it when other, more pressing things in my life took precedence, and forced me to stop.

Well, now I'm back at it. And I have SO many notes and ideas for it now that I anticipate my biggest problem will only be deciding what NOT to put into this one.:cool:

But it's ALL GOOD, though...because that's what SEQUELS are for...:up:


March on.
 

Mr.Positive

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 13, 2007
Messages
1,855
Reaction score
99
ThunderMaverick said:
Oh I was successful at not getting killed, just to stay on the subject of this topic.
That's what I'd call being VERY successful. :yes:

Have a beer, you earned it.
 

Rollo Tomassi

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 4, 2004
Messages
5,307
Reaction score
343
Age
58
Location
Nevada
Success? Sure. I'm the art director of a major vodka brand, I have my own freelance business that I'm getting so much work from I can pick and choose the good jobs, I've got a steady gig playing guitar once a week for fun that's paying me about $600/month. And I regualrly bang a hot blonde at least twice a week,..heh

You know what my biggest success has been recently? My daughter is making straight A's in school because her mom and I put in the effort to be good parents.
 

KontrollerX

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 11, 2005
Messages
4,476
Reaction score
182
I cut down on sugar filled soft drinks.

Other than that I got nothin...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Gulyaban

New Member
Joined
Jun 22, 2007
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
i lost my job in stockmarket last week..lost much of my investment saved in 5 years..that super virgin shy cindy crawford alike girl who fell in love once with me, returned to her ex after me behaving disinterest,ignoring and being an ultra player..
i am still smiling to myself how silly i am:))
 

Boschy

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 28, 2006
Messages
343
Reaction score
7
Location
Melbourne, Australia
My success has reflected the effort I've put in...lately it has been nearly zilch. But that's OK...obviously I have the power to turn things around at any time. Just been lazy and apathetic lately.
 

joe12345

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 16, 2007
Messages
11
Reaction score
0
Gulyaban said:
i lost my job in stockmarket last week..lost much of my investment saved in 5 years..that super virgin shy cindy crawford alike girl who fell in love once with me, returned to her ex after me behaving disinterest,ignoring and being an ultra player..
i am still smiling to myself how silly i am:))
damn if thats true i feel for you! look forward not back
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Top