Has anyone ever graduated So Suave a success?

[9Volt]

Or do dudes just drop off, give up, or go full red pill.

Even Pook just dropped off.

 

[Jetleg]

What do you mean by graduate?

Not sure what i'm reading here.

 

[9Volt]

As in graduating So Suave University with a PhD in Don Juanism. Not getting "left back" like the chronic zombified residents or just dropping out.

No one ever hears of an actual success story that has left So Suave a better man.

 

[Von]

As in graduating So Suave University with a PhD in Don Juanism. Not getting "left back" like the chronic zombified residents or just dropping out.

No one ever hears of an actual success story that has left So Suave a better man.

I would say the sucessful never really come back. They just fade away in history

Yeah Pook ended pretty bad

Success, you have people who are in LTR on Suave. Hope they happy.

I mean if you live your life to the fullest, end up happy, have the LTR of your dream. Of course you are à DJ.

Succesful DJ just dont scream it out loud.

You need voltage?

 

[Serenity]

I've been here a good while now, not really learning a whole lot anymore. I'm just dropping by to share my knowledge, basically whenever I have a spare moment of boredom. I got what I came here for, knowledge on how to deal with women and myself.

Once I gain skill and knowledge in something to a high degree, my interest usually declines as there's little new and exciting left. There's a lot of other things I want to learn about too, life is about much more than women.

 

[btownbuck2012]

Or do dudes just drop off, give up, or go full red pill.

Even Pook just dropped off.

To me what's great about this place is always having it in your backpocket as a resource of a group of guys who for the most part "get it" when it comes to gender dynamics and healthy masculinity. What's really great is being able to come back here throughout the years as you mature and reread some of your favorite posts and glean new insights that you wouldn't have picked up on as a younger man. It's a great way to benchmark how you're evolving up against guys you admire and hope to be more like some day in terms of their experience and wisdom in dating women and life overall. Also, as you get better you're able to help younger guys who are just finding this site or guys who are more inexperienced and don't know where else to go for help. I don't think I ever want to get to the point where I totally leave this forum. It's been too helpful to me in my past, present and undoubtedly in the future and I think I owe it to the guys who came before us to help out as best I can the more I grow and mature. It's just a great place overall.

 

[zekko]

Most guys usually come here because they want a particular girl. They are then told to forget her and instead date a bunch of girls they don't care about. If they do eventually find a girl they like, they are told only betas commit to one girl and they should be spinning plates instead. So I have no idea what SoSuave would consider a success. Just some dude who spins plates until he's dead, I guess.

Of course I'm sure 90% of the guys here are massive successes, because 90% of the guys here are hardcore alpha males. Just ask them.

 

[ubercat]

As lefty said some leave some stay to help. If they've done the work they leave as steel that has been tempered in the fire

 

[AlexKaiser]

Even though the warzone of scoring HBs feels like something you can win by having the most success with hot girls, I think its more like the old arcade games.

You keep going and going until you run out of quarters, and then its over.

How you win depends on how much fun you actually had from that experience. You can tell every beta male that scorns you, that you could probably ruin their dream girl and turn her into your slut, calling you and crying when you don't give her the time of the day, but if you getting these girls isn't making you happy, then what is?

Getting girls just to garner the jealousy of betas is like beating games to garner the jealousy of terrible players. You're spending way too much time trying to get reactions out of people you don't care about, rather than using that time actually making yourself happier.

 

[blind_one]

Once I gain skill and knowledge in something to a high degree, my interest usually declines as there's little new and exciting left. There's a lot of other things I want to learn about too, life is about much more than women.

This is precisely how I operate in life. When I get excited/interested in a new skill or concept I dive into it fully researching and developing myself. It is all a matter of time management as always.

Wholeheartedly agree with what Brad said as well. Perspective and support. Plus, it never hurts to have some internet buddies who got your back, the bigger your network the better.

Success is different for every person. For some success in itself is finding this site and discovering an entirely different paradigm. One that is based on logic and facts, unlike what society feeds us nowadays. For others it might be your first threesome or other ''feats of strength'', plates well spun, emotional detachment. Personal development is highly praised here as it should, for every man's value is a sum of his assets and skills.

 

[LogMeIn]

Or do dudes just drop off, give up, or go full red pill.

Even Pook just dropped off.

I was here for a while but I left! I don't see the point in staying! I believe confidence is what you need to attract chicks! No more reading or asking questions! They're only useful when you use them!

confidence

absolut could-care-****ing-less-what-every-****ing-body thinks

confidence is sexy.
confidence is sexy.
confidence is sexy.

 

[Roober]

I believe even Pook and Rollo both say to get off this site once guys have gained all the knowledge they need. How long that takes completely depends on the indvididual. @bradd80 pretty much nailed it on the head

 

[TheImpatientFuturist]

This isn't school. Being a DJ is a way of life. There is no graduation. I believe it's something you work at every day. You get better every day, and keep working at it. New challenges arise and you hopefully get better at taking them on as each day passes. The one man that comes to mind is Rollo Tomasi. He's proof that there is always more to learn, no matter how high level a DJ you are.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I remember reading about how some dude named Shark was a full on red pill too. He basically stopped posting on his site so that he could become a millionaire or something, that's what people who allegedly know him said at least. So yeah you can become successful. We'll see how we all do.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Once you gain the information you need from this site you tend to just fade away. I notice when I'm balling and dating multiple women I won't even visit SS but as soon as it slows down here I am.

People say they remain here to "give back" and hell even I named that as the reason I frequent this site. The truth is, SS is just like any other social media. We use it for the similar reasons, whether we like it or not.

 

[zekko]

People say they remain here to "give back" and hell even I named that as the reason I frequent this site.

I have to be honest, I don't stick around here to "give back", I just enjoy the board. I find the subject matter interesting.

 

[EmotionalGeek]

Yeah Pook ended pretty bad

What sdid happen to pook?

 

[Trump]

Most guys usually come here because they want a particular girl. They are then told to forget her and instead date a bunch of girls they don't care about. If they do eventually find a girl they like, they are told only betas commit to one girl and they should be spinning plates instead.

I don't know about that bro.

We tell guys who want a particular girl to sleep with her as fast as possible so she has no leverage you. We tell guys when she starts acting up, trying to switch the courting/dating/relationship from your terms to her terms, try not to play into her games and have other girls available. We tell guys girls are usually good for entertainment, sex, and reproduction. We tell guys if they find a girl they like, if she has proven herself, give her special treatment. We tell guys committing to one girl is fine, as long as it's best for you. But with the laws, state, society on her side, and with her not looking for a man for security in 2017, her looking for a man to fit her current goals and values, it may not be in his best interest.

We tell guys girls don't care about you personally, they care about their image in society and what you can do for them. We tell guys marriage is a situation where you are emotionally, financially, legally, socially committed to her, all while she expects more from you while her value goes down.

We tell guys when the girl he likes begins to make his head spin so he starts to focus on her goals and happiness instead of his, start looking for other girls. Then we say 'hey, this girl you thought was special, this girl you thought was a soul mate, your one and only, the only girl you ever loved, may not be as special as you think as all girls are basically the same."

But we have never said forget about a girl. We have never said betas commit to one girl. We have never said don't get married. We have never said don't have a family and kids. We have always said do what's best for you.

 

[zekko]

But we have never said forget about a girl. We have never said betas commit to one girl. We have never said don't get married. We have never said don't have a family and kids. We have always said do what's best for you.

It depends on who "we" are. I have always said to do what's best for you, but sometimes it feels like that trying to get that message out is like swimming in molasses. The most popular poster here is Poon King, and if he's the main spokesman here, he definitely sends the message that betas commit to one girl. And there's all that "No alpha would willingly go into a cage" stuff.

Honestly, if you look at seduction material as a whole, maybe the one common thread throughout all of it is to date multiple women (even more so than "get in the gym" lol). It seems that if you want to be considered good with the ladies, that is the one thing that defines it. This makes sense, especially for newbies, because if you want to get good at something, you need practice. I have never written down to new people, though, and as an old fart myself, I have to admit that as you make your way through life, sometimes your priorities change.

I guess there is no "single voice of the forum", though, even if there are tendencies. There seem to be two main camps here on the topic of spinning plates. Shoot, I'll throw in three:
1) You should spin plates all your life, anything less and you're a beta chump.
2) You should spin plates to learn and have fun, and if you meet a worthy girl, you can elevate her to exclusive status.
3) If you get into a committed relationship after years of spinning plates, that's okay, but it's your duty as an alpha male to cheat on her and get some on the side, because that's what real men do.

 

[17 shots]

So I have no idea what SoSuave would consider a success. Just some dude who spins plates until he's dead, I guess.

lol....Playas only live once