"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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has anyone ever been speeddating?

garruk

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was watching 40 year old virgin last night and the speeddating scene made me sorta wanaa give it a try.

just for fun sort of thing. prob good small talk practice too
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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did speeddating serveral times, i met my ex-girlfriend on a speeddate, but i warn you....... girls are very hard to get there (they play games), to many other guys.. ... in other words.. you have to have a plan...

but it is a very good place to practice small talks, so give it a try, and experience it.... maybe you'll like it/ and maybe not... and o yah its fun:yes:
 

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What do you mean Rob,don't they usually establish a 1:1 f/m ratio?
 

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yup, its 1:1 but the girls are hard to get (playing hard to get) at a speeddating event, most girls will have around 10 matches because every guys fills in "yes"... even the ugly girls are getting a bunch of telephone-numbers... it's a hard datinggame....

and another thing is" the girls got girlfriends who are also at the speeddating"....
so when you're not "in / there type".. you can skip 4/5 girls of the list...
so beware off the girlfriends..

i know..i am pretty good at the dating game.. but speeddating , you have to like it...but i score my dates at simple things like : stores, events,just by say "hi" to a girl at the busstop...

some tips:

- make a great entrance, be the man, talk to some girls
- flirt a lot with the girls..
- take the lead..... don't wait
- take telephonenumbers ( you're not allowed but break that rule:up: )
- After the speeddate, take some girls to another place, and make a party:)

just do this and you will have a great evening....::cool:
and play it cool, just be a man..
 

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rob1234 said:
did speeddating serveral times, i met my ex-girlfriend on a speeddate, but i warn you....... girls are very hard to get there (they play games), to many other guys.. ... in other words.. you have to have a plan...

but it is a very good place to practice small talks, so give it a try, and experience it.... maybe you'll like it/ and maybe not... and o yah its fun:yes:

haha yeah it sounds like you know what your doing. would you recommend drinking? and are other people usually dirnking during this as well?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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rob1234

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I don't recommend drinking, it's up to you, but you'll have a bad breath and if you drink too much you will talk crap....i always stay at water /cola or something like that....why do you need drinking?(alcohol)

Other people make there own choice wheter they are drinking or not, but plz don't drink too much.
 

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Speed dating was lame. The vast majority of girls were only OK in looks. Every single girl asked you the same exact qeustions.

What's your major/job. What do you do for fun.

At the end I wasn't matched with anybody. You only get the contact info if both you and the other person said yes. Since I didn't say yes to every girl, I don't know if the only reason I didn't get any matches because some of the girls I said no to, said yes to me, or if every girl there said no to me.
 

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Ok,Maxtro..

Most times i steer the conversation in the beginning, just by asking different questions, and after a while ( 2 questions).. i let the girl do the talking...

you will see a different kind of attention .. because you're different than all other guys.. and be aware of non-verbal communication, like playing hair, touching etc.. after 3 minutes you can make you're decision "yes" or "no".

one tip:
If a girl you're talking to is looking away/side-glancing several times, it's probably a "no", she's observing another dude...
 
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