“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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has anyone ever been speeddating?

garruk

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was watching 40 year old virgin last night and the speeddating scene made me sorta wanaa give it a try.

just for fun sort of thing. prob good small talk practice too
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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did speeddating serveral times, i met my ex-girlfriend on a speeddate, but i warn you....... girls are very hard to get there (they play games), to many other guys.. ... in other words.. you have to have a plan...

but it is a very good place to practice small talks, so give it a try, and experience it.... maybe you'll like it/ and maybe not... and o yah its fun:yes:
 

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What do you mean Rob,don't they usually establish a 1:1 f/m ratio?
 

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yup, its 1:1 but the girls are hard to get (playing hard to get) at a speeddating event, most girls will have around 10 matches because every guys fills in "yes"... even the ugly girls are getting a bunch of telephone-numbers... it's a hard datinggame....

and another thing is" the girls got girlfriends who are also at the speeddating"....
so when you're not "in / there type".. you can skip 4/5 girls of the list...
so beware off the girlfriends..

i know..i am pretty good at the dating game.. but speeddating , you have to like it...but i score my dates at simple things like : stores, events,just by say "hi" to a girl at the busstop...

some tips:

- make a great entrance, be the man, talk to some girls
- flirt a lot with the girls..
- take the lead..... don't wait
- take telephonenumbers ( you're not allowed but break that rule:up: )
- After the speeddate, take some girls to another place, and make a party:)

just do this and you will have a great evening....::cool:
and play it cool, just be a man..
 

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rob1234 said:
did speeddating serveral times, i met my ex-girlfriend on a speeddate, but i warn you....... girls are very hard to get there (they play games), to many other guys.. ... in other words.. you have to have a plan...

but it is a very good place to practice small talks, so give it a try, and experience it.... maybe you'll like it/ and maybe not... and o yah its fun:yes:

haha yeah it sounds like you know what your doing. would you recommend drinking? and are other people usually dirnking during this as well?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't recommend drinking, it's up to you, but you'll have a bad breath and if you drink too much you will talk crap....i always stay at water /cola or something like that....why do you need drinking?(alcohol)

Other people make there own choice wheter they are drinking or not, but plz don't drink too much.
 

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Speed dating was lame. The vast majority of girls were only OK in looks. Every single girl asked you the same exact qeustions.

What's your major/job. What do you do for fun.

At the end I wasn't matched with anybody. You only get the contact info if both you and the other person said yes. Since I didn't say yes to every girl, I don't know if the only reason I didn't get any matches because some of the girls I said no to, said yes to me, or if every girl there said no to me.
 

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Ok,Maxtro..

Most times i steer the conversation in the beginning, just by asking different questions, and after a while ( 2 questions).. i let the girl do the talking...

you will see a different kind of attention .. because you're different than all other guys.. and be aware of non-verbal communication, like playing hair, touching etc.. after 3 minutes you can make you're decision "yes" or "no".

one tip:
If a girl you're talking to is looking away/side-glancing several times, it's probably a "no", she's observing another dude...
 
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