"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Has anyone else here read The Manual?

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I recently finished the The Manual: What women want and how to give it to them by W. Anton and I think its the most spot on book about seduction I've ever read.

I'm curious if any of the DJ's have checked it out.

My perspective is that of a natural, (meaning I don't need game psychology to get laid,) that unplugged while dealing the fallout of yet another LTR's demise. The insight into female psychology was astounding and at first almost disturbing. Two years hence my world has never been the same I admit.

PUA material is now a fascination and I've read Strauss, Mystery, Shark and Roosh's work and found some insight from each. But felt that they all were missing something as I've gotten laid since 14 without projecting a indifferent or callous "alpha" attitude.

The manoshpere has some phenomenal bloggers such as Rollo, but I always felt that some of the guys have some serious issues and give bad advice.

I really dug this book though, has anyone else read it?

The forum was helpful when I joined recently and I'm curious what all you DJ's think.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I am reading it right now along with a few other books. Models is really good insight and am finding that interesting.
 

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OP i just wanted to say I love the screen name. I took an AP art history course for my history credit in HS and I did my final exam on the conversation of saint Paul


as far as the book when i first got here,w ell nto first but once i really started to spin plates

http://www.amazon.com/How-Succeed-Women-Louis/dp/0130950912

that book did more for my game than jsut about anything else i read. it even talks about plates. i followed that book to the T and in 3 months kept women
 
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