Has anyone else had this experience? (female ambush)

[jafyk]

First of all. Hey, DJ's, Pretenders and AFCs, lol. What's up? It's been a while since I graced these threads. Last time I was here come to find out Jophil had passed away. Hope nothing drastic has happened since then. If so, someone please fill me in.

Anyway to my thread. So, this afternoon I go in to pick up my time card at work and 3 female co-workers I am cool with ambush me. It was funny and scary at the same time. All 3 think I should shave my beard. They said they don't like it. My beard is groomed by the way. One of them ( jokingly said I look like a terrorist. And then one of them (Sam) went out of her way to tell me has a new boy friend (o..k, what's up with that?). Even the one with a bf (casey) who periodically asks me for rides had let me feel her boobs before and we both talk perverted to each other. Anyone, have an strange work place run-ins with female co-workers or in any other group?

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

They probably have a bet to see if they can get you to shave. Never give in to their whims. I'd keep the beard going just to prove a point to them.

 

[jafyk]

Lol, infact one of them said. I bet he's going to shave now that we told him we like him better without the beard. What's it to them anyway?

 

[DanelMadr]

One of them jokingly said I look like a terrorist

Well, are you? 'jafyk' sounds suspicious.:trouble:

 

[BigJimbo]

Co-workers? There is your problem. They have no respect for you. You are another chump to them. If you were their boss (a boss who threw horrible fits of rage) they would worship the ground you tinkled on.

 

[jafyk]

Well, are you? 'jafyk' sounds suspicious.:trouble:

She was joking. No, I'm not. If I was would I tell anyone?

 

[jafyk]

Co-workers? There is your problem. They have no respect for you. You are another chump to them. If you were their boss (a boss who threw horrible fits of rage) they would worship the ground you tinkled on.

I think that's a drastic point of view you have there. You are entitled to it but I don't get vibes of disrespect from them.

 

[jafyk]

So, here's an update. Last Wednesday Sam, the girl who told me she had a new bf invited me out to come to a comedy club along with the other co-worker who called me a terrorist and another of her friend. She had already taken care of the tickets. I asked her if I could bring someone she said ok, so I took my FWB and we all had a good time there. Afterward, I asked Sam to chill with me at my place the next day. She agreed but canceled on me last minute said she was sick (probably a lie) but at this time I don't really care anyway.

So, fast forward to today Casey the one whom I've given rides to in the past was talking to me via facebook. She said she was going to walk home. I offered to give her it was almost midnight and it's cold outside as well. Prior to taking giving her a ride back. She mentioned that her bf was mad at her. She was flirting with me "telling me she was wet" and saying, "She's just kidding". I neg hit her and told I heard she doesn't get wet and that's probably why her bf is mad at her. Anyway, she took it all well. So, I told her that that's one of the things I like about her. Her ability to handle neg hits and her sense of humor.
In the car she told me her bf had called her and texted her a bunch of times. She put him on speaker phone and he sounded like he was gonna cry even though she just told him she was on her way back. He really sounded AFC. So, on the way she told me how he had cheated on her while she was in the hospital and called her to tell her about it (I couldn't believe it but then again after you've been on this site for a long time such stories are believable). Suffice to say there's a sexual tension between Casey and I. So, I decided today I was gonna go for the kiss.
So, after we got something to eat, before pulling out of the parking lot. I stopped and she asked me, "Why are you so quiet?" At that moment I just grabbed her and kissed her (the rush felt good).She kissed me back and when we stopped she asked me, "Do you always kiss co-workers?" lol. I said, "No, but I've always wanted to kiss you".
This may sounds like a newbie question but what do you guys make of this. I asked her when was the next time she was free. She said, "I'm not sleeping with you." That was funny. I responded with, "I didn't say I was gonna sleep with you" but just before I dropped her off. I went in for the kiss again and she turned me down and was trying to get her stuff and she said, "You've got me all messed up now" Lol. So, what do you think guys? By the way casey is 20.

 

[Warrior74]

Women at work. Bad move.

 

[LoneWolf]

Sheesh, took you long enough to make a move. The problem with you is you TALK TO MUCH WITH HER. You let her talk too much man, you should of just parked up somewhere and felt her up and stuff. Don't ever listen to what girls say, they always say "I won't sleep with you" "I won't kiss you." It's happened to me so many times and we end up doing it. Never ever listen to them. She hung out with you cause she wanted you to do something. Soon as she started talking about her bf I would of changed the subject or just kissed her. Who the fuk wants to hear about a girls boyfriend problems. That's like the most turn off thing ever.

Next time just fuking grab her and fuk her. But as others said, co worker.. bad bad idea. I probably would just ignore any girls at work that spoke to me. Ur there to work not fuk around with your co workers.

 

[jafyk]

Ok, I don't know if this makes any difference but we are all student workers and we though we work for the same department we rarely work today in the same location. Just throwing that out there.

Thanks Lonewolf but why do they say things like that "I won't sleep with you"? lol.