"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Has Anyone Else Freaking Noticed.....

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....that we, as guys, tend to date girls who look like us?

It's really strange. Does anyone besides me notice this?

With every girl whom I've dated, there's been at least one person who commented, "Are you two related?"

"Are you two cousins"

"Are you two brother and sister?"

This has happened with every single girl I've hooked up with. It's really strange.

Has anyone else noticed that the girls you're attracted to look related to you? Or am I just an incest freak.....

Lol please respond
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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come on you are all viewing this thread and no ones commenting? I'm sure some of you have experiences with relationships?
 
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Sometimes I just get "Are you two together"
which i like, because i feel like it shows we're compatible.
It's real nice when i am just getting to know a girl.

I do know what White Boy is saying, though. Maybe it's narcissism or whatever but i notice a lot of guys with similar looking GFs. Look a Johnny Depp and his wife.
they look the same.
 
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This observation is well-documented. It is no secret. People very often go for what is familiar. The same observation can even be made with pets, not just girlfriends/boyfriends.

I once saw a couple that I swear looked like they could easily be brother and sister.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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oh and how could I forget? There is a TRUE story out there about a couple that met and hooked up. Turns out they were long lost brother and sister. They had never met before and didn't know.

and cue the crying game.
 
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Sometimes you tend to date girls that look like your mom (Freudian theory), which is basically she looks like you.

Sometimes, by spending so much time together, a couple might end up looking alike.
 
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It's a real phenomenon. You're gf is generally some you feel comfortable around and who passes the boner test.

The comfort piece might be because she LOOKS like your mom or sister, i.e. someone you associate with comfort and warm feelings.

Nothing twisted or incestuous about it. It just happens unconsciously.
 
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ScottMustaine said:
Yes it's true. Or you search for the facial 'lines ' that your mom or dad had.

My dad has big forehead. And my mom is blonde. And well I go into horndog mode when I see a blonde with big wide forehead.

Though none of them had blue eyes....
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So what you're saying is that indirectly, you get turned on by your dad??
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've heard that what happens is you unconsciously see familiarity in a person, they may have features similar to family members, and that makes you more comfortable around the person, and also slightly more attracted to them.

It's pretty interesting, I've been told there's some sociological and psychological reports on this subject, never bothered looking it up though haha.

Gunner
 
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