If you are thinking that, you need another girl. The right girl is sufficiently attractive to you to distract you from any other women and time with her will always be total bliss.
You are probably right. I don't think that I've ever dated a woman that I've been head over heels for like ever. I've been with attractive women. But never anyone that I was like "I have to be here right now."
Exactly. And if she is also (your) 10, you can't have an abundance of or care-free attitude toward such women (at least not inside). Yes, women themselves are common, but your favorite girl is not.
I agree. Because you might never meet a woman like that again. Ideally that's who you'd marry.
If a commodity is too common it becomes valueless.
I guess just because we can get a date doesn't always mean we should.
Generally I think a lot of men have been brainwashed into believing they should be grateful for any attention they get.
If most men are blue pill or AFC or fat or married or gay socially inept or in bad jobs or bad at s3x then the actual number of 'good'men must be relatively small. Heck, maybe we are the unicorns.
Maybe women are as desperate to find a man as men are to find a women.
If you don't believe me look at how much women will pay to look more attractive (literally meaning to attract). Don't tell me it is mainly for other women. Other women don't get to see the $200 lingerie.
Why do married women often look frumpier than their unmarried friends? Because they have attracted a man.
Maybe women are better at hiding their desperation.
I think for some guys on here if they screened more and dated less they would have more fun, waste less time on low quality women (and the battering to self esteem that causes) and might end up actually liking women more. YMMV.
I think that you are right. I kinda took myself out of the "game" for half the year so I was like "**** it" and I wanted to **** too.
I don't think I've ever said no to a date to an attractive woman before. I guess all those years of rejection have seeped themselves into my subconscious.
And those dates felt like bigger waste of times because I didn't **** them.
What you about low quality girls battering the self esteem is true. My self esteem definitely took a hit after those dates.
Every date can be a learning experience, especially for younger green horn DJs. Good chance to try things you might not otherwise try, like use a particular type of humor, or make a certain statement. Can help grow your confidence. But as you mature and get older, you will get to where you will say and do what you want and not give a sh|t regardless of who the woman is. But earlier on, most guys don't do that.
I'm to the point where I just put myself there for the most part. But I will admit that this older chick that I dated had no interest in films, tv, and etc. I am a filmmaker so that was a bit jarring. The only film that she wanted to talk about was La La Land (musical about making it in Hollywood and relationships. I heard it's great). I was too afraid to talk about what I liked at the risk of her being bored.
