"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Where the hell did Scaramouche go? Hasn't logged in for almost 6 weeks now... Does anyone know more about this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PairPlusRoyalFlush, I had originally added a similar Bible Belt comment in my OP, but I decided to take it out.
Like most of us, I believe that he has turned AFC and is making the wrong choices in his situation, but that doesn't mean we should make fun of him.

Anyway, I really hope Scara is still alive...
 

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His Wallet, Her Choice.

SoSuave666 said:
A joke, of course. Although I'm never opposed to individuals bleeding gov't dry. Unfortunately though, I'll have to pick up the slack.
Maybe a tips&tricks section on offshore banking, tax evasion, paying less or no child support and general advice on leeching the system is an idea? Head it is as "For the man who's gone full poolside". Something we can pass on to our own boys one day (the ones we agreed on actually having as an individual in a 2 way decided partnership I mean.)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dear All,
Oh ye of little faith,truly is it said "A prophet is not without honour saving in his own Land"...In a Pilgrimage worthy of Paul I have been spreading the good word throughout the Eastern Lands...China and the Phillipines mainly,though I spent a magic week at Frazers hill in Malaysia...All is well,though my Pvrick is in a splint,consider me one of the walking wounded,battered but unbowed....So I will post about some interesting times in a little while
 
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