"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Has A Rejection From A Oneitis Ever Changed You For The Worst?

Juan_Man

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I became a drunk/jerk/loser for a period of time. I don't really have a comeback story, I just stopped making an a$$ out of myself. Has anyone else gone through something similar?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jay Jay

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Big Time.

I got dumped many years ago (in rather ****ed up circumstances), began drinking and smoking. I quit my job and sat around unemployed.

Eventually my best mate snapped me out of my malaise. made me move in with him and get another job.

But I was so cut by that girl and bitter I could not attract another. I started to resent my very friend who was helping me coz he was ****ing a different chick every night.

Eventually a trip overseas and some truly terrfying **** that put things in perspective snapped me out of it.

But yeah, I've been absolutely floored by a woman.

JJ
 

Juan_Man

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Thanks for sharing your experience.
 

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i was in a 3 yr relationship, so obviously it was a oneitis. Ive never cheated on a girl and never will thats just not me. But i have no problem dating and banging multiple girls when im not "taken".
We broke up, and it got pretty bad. I started drinking alot, and lost a lot of my confidence. I tried approaching a few girls, and realized i lost a lot of my game over the 3 years i was with her, as she turned me somewhat back to my highschool afc days. So finally, i hit the gym, and lost a bunch of weight. Seeing myself in the mirror, and seeing the scale show lighter and lighter week by week, started to boost my confidence. I started reading on here again, and started drinking less. Now almost 5 months later ive lost 32 lbs, and can approach practically any girl and get her number. Now im dating 4 girls, 2 of them 7's, 1 and 8, and one what i consider a 9.5 I swear to god, shes just a little flaky, but shes young. At one point i was talking to 11 girls, but ive nexted a shlt ton of them here lately. Whats funny is the ones i havent talked to in a few weeks start calling again. Its crazy. Im out with one girl and the phone starts ringing. And we all know what that does :rockon:
Im finally where i want to be, im having more fun right now than i ever have in my life. I look my best, and getting even better every day, i feel great and im loving my life.
Funny thing is, i saw my ex a few days ago (havent seen her or talked to her in 6 weeks). She left me for some short fat guy. Beats me why, only thing i know is that shes fu*king crazy. So she saw how i changed, and literally got pissed off. Not my problem anymore. I think its hilarious. :crackup:
 
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