Has a girl ever sh! tested you referring to you as a "friend"?

[Robert28]

Might be a good idea to let her know that you can be friends, but you have to fvck first. Wouldn't want to ruin a friendship with all of that sexual tension now would ya?

I can here her screeching now “all you wanted to do was sleep with me! I’m worth more than sex! I don’t do that!”. At least it’ll end the friendship.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

Does it always mean friend zone, or do they ever test you? Sometimes it seems like they're trying to get a reaction out of you to see how you respond.

Yes, and I show them the door. I have enough friends. And my time is limited to be playing games and being tested. Plus I cannot offer a genuine friendship with a woman I am mentally and sexually attracted towards. So there is the door.

Modern Man Advice

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

I disagree. Do you think she'll be calling Leonardo Dicaprio or Drake "friend?" She's calling you friend because she sees you as weak/not alpha/has no intention of fkn you. She didn't call the alpha she fkd on the first date "friend" I can assure you.

I have no female friends and haven't had any in many years. It's a drama free way to live life

Well no, you have no female friends because you react poorly to being tested; I don't react poorly to a word like Friend because I'm not insecure about my place.

 

[samspade]

Does it always mean friend zone, or do they ever test you? Sometimes it seems like they're trying to get a reaction out of you to see how you respond.

It's meaningless....trust me. And the friend zone is the biggest psych-out man ever invented for himself. Not real.

 

[Fruitbat]

Instantly block any girl who does that, no femininity at all.

Girls in the U.K. use “mate”to signify no romantic interest.

 

[In2theGame]

Actions < Words.

As long as she keeps sexually benefiting me, it's not a big deal. I would rather a chick call me her friend rather than BF. Especially early on. Calling you a friend means she knows that she hasn't locked you down yet....which means she is still on her best behavior.

This right here.

 

[bat soup]

Does it always mean friend zone, or do they ever test you? Sometimes it seems like they're trying to get a reaction out of you to see how you respond.

What she says is not important, what matters is how she reacts when you put your hand on her leg.