GreatHornedOwl
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Does it always mean friend zone, or do they ever test you? Sometimes it seems like they're trying to get a reaction out of you to see how you respond.
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Has a girl ever sh! tested you referring to you as a "friend"?
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SargeMaximus
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I’ve gotten this many times. Usually from
Girls I’m sleeping with or
Women I’ve just met
Georgepithyou
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Instantly block any girl who does that, no femininity at all.
GreatHornedOwl
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As in no attraction for you, or she's just too masculine?
Georgepithyou
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Really is too masculine and a sign of disrespect.
No the worst I’ve ever got is “you’re like family”. It took everything I had not to punch her in the face. Who says that? So creepy. I immediately ghosted her.
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Actions < Words.
As long as she keeps sexually benefiting me, it's not a big deal. I would rather a chick call me her friend rather than BF. Especially early on. Calling you a friend means she knows that she hasn't locked you down yet....which means she is still on her best behavior.
Now if you've been dating for some time and she calls you a friend, it's concerning.
No worries. Just tell her that you'll be spitting the bill. Cause that's what friends do.
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No. I haven't gotten that one yet. 
Lol well the exception is if she actually is just a friend and you both want it to be that way
Nobody wants to be friends with women. Even other women.
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There are sh1t tests and then there is just natural female behavior and this is unfortunately the latter.
To her, this term carries no disrespect, she views it as a place of privilege to be her friend; when you bring the term Friend here it becomes disrespectful to you because we're all under the assumption you made your intentions clear.
In my travels, friend means she is aware you are way out of her league and won't be able to keep you but is willing to let you play and obviously outright undesirables.
To her, this term carries no disrespect, she views it as a place of privilege to be her friend; when you bring the term Friend here it becomes disrespectful to you because we're all under the assumption you made your intentions clear.
In my travels, friend means she is aware you are way out of her league and won't be able to keep you but is willing to let you play and obviously outright undesirables.
Lol idk a lot of times that's prolly true, I have basically only one platonic female friend bc her bf is my buddy and we have shared interests so i dont really know haha
Yeah I mean I have those too, but they’re friends by association. If I met them somewhere else and they were like “let’s be friends” I’d be “fvck off *****”.
Yeah, unless they have common interests with me and seem like actually cool people
I disagree. Do you think she'll be calling Leonardo Dicaprio or Drake "friend?" She's calling you friend because she sees you as weak/not alpha/has no intention of fkn you. She didn't call the alpha she fkd on the first date "friend" I can assure you.
I have no female friends and haven't had any in many years. It's a drama free way to live life
More details needed. I have very often had women I'm sleeping with introduce me to family or friends as a "friend," and that's just fine. Far bigger hills to hoist your flag on than this one. Many people do not like ever being introduced as BF or GF, self included.
Not even then. Not even trying to put myself in a position to be used for favors, which women are known to do with their friends.