"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Has a boyfriend but still very much into me

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I am a college student living with my mum most of the time, and I stay over at my dad's house occasionally during holidays etc. I number closed a seemingly shy/innocent HB7/8 (1 year younger than me) I met at a sports shop where my dad lives about a month ago (she was shopping there) and we arranged to go out the next day so she could show me around the town as my dad had just moved there after I chatted with her for about 20 minutes or so. We met as planned and hung out for about 2 hours before I had to go to a football match, however the entire thing was personally for me just for experience as I'm still relatively new to the game and have only been working on improving myself for about a year now so I was definately not down for the idea of a LDR.

Anyway she txt msgs me the next day, when I've actually went home to my mum's house who lives an hour and a half away from my dad's town and it bcomes dirty text messages somehow, and well we've exchanged them for about 3 weeks now and I can safely say I've gotten a hell of a lot better at dirty talking and txting ;) Now, I still don't want a LTR/LDR but wouldn't mind something to keep me busy when I stay at my dad's house lol :) Anyway we have arranged to meet up next week when I am next staying there, and she has clearly expressed what she wants to do with me but I won't go into specifics heh So I was suggesting what we could do and she said "Haha I don't know what my boyfriend would think to that" :eek:

Now I thought wtf lol, what a good boyfriend he must be or what an amazing player I must be, or what a major slut she must be :p I didn't react to this at all, I think I said something like "U have a boyfriend? ah well i'm glad to hear you can keep yourself busy when I'm not around haha" or something and the vibe was not destroyed at all and we continue flirting over the phone... can anyone tell me wtf is going on here because she didn't flake the first time we met up and her Interest Levels seemed to rocket the entire time I was with her, and have stayed high since (with her continuously dirty txt msging me etc). Should I just go in for the kill since her boyfriend obviously isn't satisfying her or just forget about this because I'm being played ?

Sorry for the long post guys haha, I need to work on getting straight to the ****ing point in future. Cheers in advance.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ahh..the ethics of cheating...

Well...you can either
a) Not do anything, out of respect for the poor guy
b) Kill! (close)

Meh. I think that's about it for advice.
 

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Docs said:
Ahh..the ethics of cheating...

Well...you can either
a) Not do anything, out of respect for the poor guy
b) Kill! (close)

Meh. I think that's about it for advice.
Now I wouldn't normally go for it, but ffs the Interest she has in me well her BF can't be doing much right and in the end she will just bang some other guy probably. Yes, I might end up feeling guilty about it in the end but I can't see their relationship lasting anyway if she acts like that. I dunno :| I used to care but then I found websites like this and femalefirst.com or something in which the majority of women seem to be proud of ****ing cheating and behaving like sluts.
 

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You must be better than what she's getting. He might just be her jackass who spends all his money on her.
 

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She's an attention *****. These girls will do virtually anything to get attention from guys (most likely because daddy wasn't around when they were growing up). It doesn't matter if its you, the guy down the street or the salesman at the mall, they go for them all. They are VERY GOOD at seducing and will use their sexuality to get what they want. Meaning if she has to spread her legs for you to get attention, then that's what she'll do. However, just know that at any one time she's got 3-4 (probably more) guys she's doing this to. Then a steady bf and another few that she's lining up to work on. Its a vicious cycle and will likely never end.

As long as you don't get attached, then your good. However if you do get attached, your in for a tornado from hell.



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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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