Has a bf, still texting me.

[Helpabrotherout]

Hey guys, recently got screwed over by a chick blah blah blah so I came here for help. Read a lot of the bible and I appreciate everyone's help.

So recently I met a girl. Pretty good looking. We talked a little and got her number but she said she has a bf. Whatever. I got some info about him and her past men. She's with a guy that doesn't care but has been with him for 8 months. Got talking about what she wants really and she said the usual as to what every girl wants. So I played it out and told her things I would do. Trying to get her to drop her ex and move on. I told her you can keep going back to your bf and babysit him( said he's immature) or you can try someone different that is more mature and knows how to treat a lady. She said well let's ask each other questions and get to know each other. So my answers have been short and sweet. Wanna remain a mystery to her. She will tex me and I'll if ore it for a little while but she will text me it again like she's thinking I didn't get it. To me it shows she interested. How can I play this out? Never really tried to get a girl to drop her ex and it's hard todo I'm sure.

Have I been doing things wrong? Trying to stop being an afc. I've got a couple other plates going also.

 

[sylvester the cat]

i have a boyfriend= not interested.

if she was interested she wouldn't have mentioned him. she's an aw.

 

[cataxdz]

Friendzoned

 

[goldengoose]

She's with a guy that doesn't care but has been with him for 8 months. Got talking about what she wants really and she said the usual as to what every girl wants. So I played it out and told her things I would do. Trying to get her to drop her ex and move on. I told her you can keep going back to your bf and babysit him( said he's immature) or you can try someone different that is more mature and knows how to treat a lady.

Who cares what she really wants. If she doesn't care for him she will cheat. You fvcked up by telling her what you would do. That makes you an AFC trying to get her to drop him. You should care less about her trying to get her to leave him. You want her to fvck you, then she will leave him. Don't talk about the boyfriend. Talk about normal stufl like he doesn't exist. If she wants to fvck you, she will. If you get nothing but excuses you are getting strung along, then you ignore her.

Alright so she got done work, told me to text her tomorrow after 6:30 am. She doesn't want to save my number in her phone due to it being too risky. I don't know guys she sounds interested. She asked what do I look for in a girl. Wanted to say my **** but idk how that would go haha. Anyways, I mean even so if I land in the friendzone, so what. I'm going to see if I can make something work here just for laughs. Should I even text her tomorrow? Like I said, I'm still learning and am curios to see if I can get something going.

You fvcked up. Move on or you will just get strung along.

 

[Helpabrotherout]

Thanks guys, still learning here.

 

[Helpabrotherout]

Alright so she got done work, told me to text her tomorrow after 6:30 am. She doesn't want to save my number in her phone due to it being too risky. I don't know guys she sounds interested. She asked what do I look for in a girl. Wanted to say my **** but idk how that would go haha. Anyways, I mean even so if I land in the friendzone, so what. I'm going to see if I can make something work here just for laughs. Should I even text her tomorrow? Like I said, I'm still learning and am curios to see if I can get something going.

 

[sylvester the cat]

She doesn't want to save my number in her phone due to it being too risky. I don't know guys she sounds interested.

:crackup:

go ahead. do what you gotta do. we'll be here to pick up the pieces.

 

[Helpabrotherout]

Have a date tomorrow and she just said she doesn't want to stop talking to me.

 

[om1xr]

She doesn't want to save my number in her phone due to it being too risky. I don't know guys she sounds interested. She asked what do I look for in a girl. Wanted to say my **** but idk how that would go haha. Anyways, I mean even so if I land in the friendzone,.

You want to save a hoe and you will get a hoe. you are just an orbiter for this hoe.

 

[Tictac]

You don't tell women what you would do.

You show them.

Then, they either follow or they don't.

 

[Helpabrotherout]

Alright guys. So picked her up for the date. Went alright, I've had better though. Said to text me when I got home. She ended up texting me asking so? Said it was fun that's it. Never mentioned another date nothing. She said I seemed uncomfortable which I messed up on. I was a bit uncomfortable because I've never been on a date with a girl that has a bf. I then told her that she needs to figure out what she wants. Said she needed time to think. That was that. Tonight she gets a hold of me and says they broke up. Gave her the oh, sorry to hear that. She told me a lil bit about it and have her some sympathy then I changed it quick and asked how the rest of her day was. She was upset about it because he laughed at her when she left. We talked a little but then she said she was going to bed and that she will text me tomorrow. So I just said goodnight.

Guys I know that she cheated on her bf by going on a date with me. It's wrong I know. It's a big turn off to anyone but dang is she pretty. Now my texting game sucks! I would like to play this out and see where it goes. I understand that it is a possiblity that I'll get screwed over. I think if anything does happen as for a relationship I'm just going to tell her that if she cheats, plays games that she leaves no question about it. Now here's where things will get rough. I want to pursue this girl(even though I shouldn't I know) my texting game is horrible, I'm trying to refrain from it as much as I can. If we do talk tomorrow I plan to keep it short and sweet and focus back to her as I should. She's previously told me that she doesn't want to stop talking to me. Right now she's not too happy due to the break up. Would it be right to talk to her a little bit, take awhile to respond then maybe Monday call her up and plan another date? Am I on the right track here guys? Like I said I'm new to this. If it wasn't for the bible I would've been just some guy to her by now.

 

[VikingKing]

Alright guys. So picked her up for the date. Went alright, I've had better though. Said to text me when I got home. She ended up texting me asking so? Said it was fun that's it. Never mentioned another date nothing. She said I seemed uncomfortable which I messed up on. I was a bit uncomfortable because I've never been on a date with a girl that has a bf. I then told her that she needs to figure out what she wants. Said she needed time to think. That was that. Tonight she gets a hold of me and says they broke up. Gave her the oh, sorry to hear that. She told me a lil bit about it and have her some sympathy then I changed it quick and asked how the rest of her day was. She was upset about it because he laughed at her when she left. We talked a little but then she said she was going to bed and that she will text me tomorrow. So I just said goodnight.

Guys I know that she cheated on her bf by going on a date with me. It's wrong I know. It's a big turn off to anyone but dang is she pretty. Now my texting game sucks! I would like to play this out and see where it goes. I understand that it is a possiblity that I'll get screwed over. I think if anything does happen as for a relationship I'm just going to tell her that if she cheats, plays games that she leaves no question about it. Now here's where things will get rough. I want to pursue this girl(even though I shouldn't I know) my texting game is horrible, I'm trying to refrain from it as much as I can. If we do talk tomorrow I plan to keep it short and sweet and focus back to her as I should. She's previously told me that she doesn't want to stop talking to me. Right now she's not too happy due to the break up. Would it be right to talk to her a little bit, take awhile to respond then maybe Monday call her up and plan another date? Am I on the right track here guys? Like I said I'm new to this. If it wasn't for the bible I would've been just some guy to her by now.

Dude. It doesn't sound like you have the ability right now to pump n dump. If you catch feelings this is all going to turn into a big mess with you and other guy being the ones fvcked over.

Plus this sneaky little, manipulative, slut that she is should learn her lesson. If you can't fvck her and then dump her soon (and when I say dump, it means never talk to her again) then forget it.

Your acting like a chump (no offense). Why don't you think about why your acting like a chump, and fix it. Then you wont have to worry about sh!t like this.

 

[nismo-4]

I should lock this thread here, but I won't

When a woman uses IHAB, she ain't interested. She wouldn't say this or do these actions with George Clooney or Brad Pitt. This is the treadmill effect: You're running, but getting nowhere. You need to drop this girl for these reasons:

1. You are in the friendzone.
2. You are at best, an orbiter (to feed her ego when her bf refuses to feed her pu$$Y)
3. She's an attention wh0re
4. She's gonna string you along.
5. She's not gonna let go of her feelings for the bf.
6. She ain't interested.

Go after another girl. And get this girl off that pedestal! Judge nismo's orders. A woman who is interested won't mention a boyfriend even if she actually has one. On the same token, a man wouldn't say he's taken if Katy Perry asked him out on a date. (Totally irrelevant, I know)

Case closed. Get out of my court.

 

[Helpabrotherout]

Thanks guys!

 

[pyros]

When a woman uses IHAB, she ain't interested. She wouldn't say this or do these actions with George Clooney or Brad Pitt. This is the treadmill effect: You're running, but getting nowhere. You need to drop this girl for these reasons:

1. You are in the friendzone.
2. You are at best, an orbiter (to feed her ego when her bf refuses to feed her pu$$Y)
3. She's an attention wh0re
4. She's gonna string you along.
5. She's not gonna let go of her feelings for the bf.
6. She ain't interested.

Go after another girl. And get this girl off that pedestal! Judge nismo's orders. A woman who is interested won't mention a boyfriend even if she actually has one. On the same token, a man wouldn't say he's taken if Katy Perry asked him out on a date. (Totally irrelevant, I know)

Case closed. Get out of my court.

that is not true.

Ive met a few girls that had a bf, said to me or to some of my friends they did have a boyfriend, just to cheat on him with me or with my buddie.

Besides, they talked about her bf and one girl even introduced my buddie to her boyfriend as a friend...while my friend had been banging her for weeks.


So I would not be so crisp.

 

[SeymourCake]

She's leading you on. Don't fall for it.

 

[xupc]

Drop contact. Do not get involved with chicks that have boyfriends.