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I didn't read through everything on here, but she looks WAY older than 48, hell she looks way older than my 62 year old mother. This woman looks like she either spent a lot of time in a tanning bed or smoke a lot, or maybe both.
Men age like a fine wine.

Women age like milk or bread.

Search woman from your high school or college. Its like a pie eating contest after 23.

Conveniently time to build a nest and play house. Now its time you man up and marry these sluts. Raise chads baby.


Once you have your eyes open, approach is a cake walk. There is no End Game. Spinning plates and running over girls teaches you how disposable it all is.

Most of us started the journey be it red pill, pickup, dj etc seeking something like you desire. If you actually go balls to the wall, through the fire, you actually acknowledge what you are competing for.

Why any man checks out of bachelor lifestyle is beyond me. What you sacrifice as a man, as a husband and father is not something western women can ever truly fathom.

What you seek does not exist. Women are natural followers. Are indoctrinated with cuck and delusional in believing cratered SMV is empowering. LULz

Let the good times roll boyz.
 

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Men age like a fine wine.

Women age like milk or bread.

Search woman from your high school or college. Its like a pie eating contest after 23.

Conveniently time to build a nest and play house. Now its time you man up and marry these sluts. Raise chads baby.


Once you have your eyes open, approach is a cake walk. There is no End Game. Spinning plates and running over girls teaches you how disposable it all is.

Most of us started the journey be it red pill, pickup, dj etc seeking something like you desire. If you actually go balls to the wall, through the fire, you actually acknowledge what you are competing for.

Why any man checks out of bachelor lifestyle is beyond me. What you sacrifice as a man, as a husband and father is not something western women can ever truly fathom.

What you seek does not exist. Women are natural followers. Are indoctrinated with cuck and delusional in believing cratered SMV is empowering. LULz

Let the good times roll boyz.
U gonna spin plates for life? You don´t want kids?

I don´t know if I want kids. I think I might, in a few years when approaching 40.
 

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U gonna spin plates for life? You don´t want kids?

I don´t know if I want kids. I think I might, in a few years when approaching 40.
Jury is still out for me too. Everyone in my family, nuclear and extended aside from my aunt and uncle and my parents; though it wasn't a great marriage. I already went through an annulment; which was fought all the way until the end by a lady who said she didn't want one. My friends are all divorced and have little money since the "equitable distribution", pvssy support payments and child support payments. Some of my co-workers are going through a divorce and two were close to suicide when they went through it.

One guy, which is a no BS dude we all thought he would make his marriage work because she was aces. She stopped doing anything around the house, no cooking, wasn't taking care of herself, mustache, armpits, hairy legs, gained over 40 LBS just 2 years into the marriage. She was apparently threatening to leave and didn't care to work through their marriage issues (again this is third party info). Sex stopped a year or so ago and she said (I was at their house with a few of our friends, yelling I'll leave when I damn please. He filed for divorce that week and since his home was premarital, he got the court to remove her from his house under an emergency well being order. He said, before she left, with the deputies as her escort, she yelled, I'll bleed you dry with attorney and legal fees. Even if I get nothing, you'll pay dearly.

Why would I want to go through that? Look at the world we'd be bringing people into. The world now is not the 70s, 80s or even 90s. It's garbage. It's literally PC this, gender warfare, men suck, ladies rule and you get divorced after a kid or two. They do not even say her or his marriage, like it's for life. They now say his or her first or second marriage. No thank you.
 

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U gonna spin plates for life? You don´t want kids?

I don´t know if I want kids. I think I might, in a few years when approaching 40.
You don't know me very well.

Let me aware you.

Two weeks ago, i was skull ****ing some skank in her 20s. Met twice. Crushed the 2nd time I ended up at her place. I havent spoke to her since (outside the obligatory complimentary text post smash in the false accusations era of #metoo).

I was more recently getting a throater in a public parking lot mid day. Diff girl. Again on her early not late side of 20.

Was out with a diff girl today.


Son, this is how thr game is played. Leave feelers to women and children.

Playing house is for phaggots.

I am 30 and I'm skull ****ing top form SMV 18-23. Pulled a college girl age 21 from the gym. Nutted on her face post smash.

I troll. On sight when cratered SMV talks marriage and playing house.

Every chick is practice. Moreover, new girls are turning 18 everyday.

Come @me bro.

As for turning 40, lulz! Run over hot young girls. There's no bigger troll job thrn running into bishs from the past with top form SMV 18-23 on your arm.

A decade of balls to the wall pickup and takin your **** out will do that.
 

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Graham Chapman, may he RIP.
 

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High T woman to begin with. Add to that smoking and drinking, promiscuity and too much sun, and this is what you get. Her facelift a decade ago only served to accentuate her already masculine jawline.
 

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1)Still alone at 50 - 'men hate brainer women':
Kate Mulvey BRAINER
"A recent study found men simply can't handle it if a woman outshines them"
She wonders if she could get a man if she acted like a Stepford Wife.
Honey, *acting* like a Stepford wife will NOT do the job for you. o_Oo_O

Surely, I thought, an ageing [sic] alpha male, secure in his achievements, would not be jealous of his girlfriend's accomplishments? Sadly, I couldn't have been more wrong.
There is absolutely no way an "alpha male" would have anything to do with you.
 

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Only thing a woman like this can do is what my mother did, and what men can do more easily, is get at peace with herself. My mom and dad were together 16 years and he left her. Then her and stepdad were married for 30 years and he died. My mom, now 73, says she is lonely but also knows that she is past the point in life where men will want her. So rather than dwell on it she just does things with alone or with friends, what she wants, when she wants, and how she wants. She has multiple hobbies and two homes, one in Florida and one in Illinois, And an abundance of friends both places. Her latest deal is she wants to go skydiving. I think the old bird will eventually do it. She is a very mentally strong woman though I doubt a lot of these women today as they grow older will be able to become as content With themselves as mom is, but that’s about the only choice they’re going to have.
 

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Only thing a woman like this can do is what my mother did, and what men can do more easily, is get at peace with herself. My mom and dad were together 16 years and he left her. Then her and stepdad were married for 30 years and he died. My mom, now 73, says she is lonely but also knows that she is past the point in life where men will want her. So rather than dwell on it she just does things with alone or with friends, what she wants, when she wants, and how she wants. She has multiple hobbies and two homes, one in Florida and one in Illinois, And an abundance of friends both places. Her latest deal is she wants to go skydiving. I think the old bird will eventually do it. She is a very mentally strong woman though I doubt a lot of these women today as they grow older will be able to become as content With themselves as mom is, but that’s about the only choice they’re going to have.
Seems to be the best option for a woman in such conditions, too bad it requires a stable mind which is something missing in most women nowdays.
 

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Only thing a woman like this can do is what my mother did, and what men can do more easily, is get at peace with herself. My mom and dad were together 16 years and he left her. Then her and stepdad were married for 30 years and he died. My mom, now 73, says she is lonely but also knows that she is past the point in life where men will want her. So rather than dwell on it she just does things with alone or with friends, what she wants, when she wants, and how she wants. She has multiple hobbies and two homes, one in Florida and one in Illinois, And an abundance of friends both places. Her latest deal is she wants to go skydiving. I think the old bird will eventually do it. She is a very mentally strong woman though I doubt a lot of these women today as they grow older will be able to become as content With themselves as mom is, but that’s about the only choice they’re going to have.
Hmm, it seems that older women that are invisible to men are like the younger men that are incels.
 

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Hmm, it seems that older women that are invisible to men are like the younger men that are incels.
I dont think "invisible" is the right term, invisible basically means not seen nor acknowledge.

When it comes of incels, women have a deep sense of nuisance toward certain type of guys while at the same time we men are annoyed when an old woman take the bus seat next to us or expect to interact with us during the trip...she is not invisible, she is a pain in the ass to deal with that we would rather not have around us.

A waste of time and space basically, it goes both way and it happens when someone consume our resources while providing none.
It goes both way, women with incels and men with old women.


Pretty much. But the older women had their day in the sun (haha literally) when they were younger.

Most incels were never in their prime.
And most of all incels are not a power group able to lobby for political purposes.

The point is that incels didnt see it coming, older women had plenty of years to prepare for it.
 

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I dont think "invisible" is the right term, invisible basically means not seen nor acknowledge.

When it comes of incels, women have a deep sense of nuisance toward certain type of guys while at the same time we men are annoyed when an old woman take the bus seat next to us or expect to interact with us during the trip...she is not invisible, she is a pain in the ass to deal with that we would rather not have around us.

A waste of time and space basically, it goes both way and it happens when someone consume our resources while providing none.
It goes both way, women with incels and men with old women.



And most of all incels are not a power group able to lobby for political purposes.

The point is that incels didnt see it coming, older women had plenty of years to prepare for it.
This lady, even 20 years ago, was no looker. Maybe it's a British thing? Although, some of their ladies are quite attractive (aside from their teeth ;p). Incels are not truly involuntary celebit. They selected that lifestyle. They're can very well get a single mom or large Marge; even though they want Selena Gomez or Bebe Rexha. We cannot have everything we want in life. Like everything, we all have to compromise in order to get through life. Most men understand that. Ladies, for the most part, do not understand this; that's the problem. Eventually, the rooster comes home to roost. These "incels" eventually find some thing to have sex with. The ladies who reach the 50's and on who are not in-shape and attractive; well, there's always cats that will tolerate them. This is a fact, not fiction. Even Dr. Jordan Peterson has eluded to the female hypogamist problem.
 
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