MatureDJ
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Harridan laments, "Where ARE the 40 Year Old Men?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
seriously...this woman needs to be put in a nut house with a rubber jacket tied tightMatureDJ said:
does she understand that dudes like sting, kevin costner, and letterman might be 60 or 70 and they can get hollywood chicks in their early 20s to give them BJs any time of day.
DO OLD LADIES FVCKING HAVING A CLUE ABOUT THIS??!
powerful men age like wine
women age like milk
end of fvcking story.
I guess this is what happens when you have a constant stream of hot d!ck wanting you merely because you have a gina, then you get old....whats wrong with these men? why have they stopped calling? bring me the young men I used to have, whats wrong with them????
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What a phuckin douche bag. I swear these b!tches are their own worst enemy.I'm not dogmatic, but I'm deeply devoted to Spirit. An unlikely, modern day Mystic, Psychic Healer & Exorcist, my personal experience with the Divine has led me to a place that is closely aligned with the Ancient Wisdom held in the Essene, Celtic, Gnostic, Ancient Egyptian, Indigenous and Goddess Traditions.
Embodying The Feminine & Christ Consciousness in sacred service to restore balance to the Earth. ♕@-`-,--
I've spent the last decade clearing my karma and the karma of Humanity. This work came to a glorious pinnacle on 10.31.10 when I birthed the New Eden, and another on 11.4.10, when all of the souls in Hell and Satan himself were redeemed!! Karma free & brought ya'll along with me. You're so very welcome!
Hows about drop the new age wank and the word "Goddess" from your vocabulary. That sh!t MAY have been tolerable in your 20's.
Start acting like a normal woman who actually might have something to offer a man eh? This drongo just needs a good hard look at herself, then I dare say like a bolt of lightning she will realise where all the 40-45 year old men went.
unfortunately in todays retrograde climate I would say a male 6-7 with a decent job and nice guy tendencies has more of a chance of dying alone than this hippie swamp thing...Social_Leper said:
why?
in general taking the entire population hb 1-10 the standards women have for men are far higher than what men have for women.
most men look for any warm snatch and are too clueless to see the signs of dementia in women
this cretin will be 50 and will have 60 year old hippie pot clinic dudes clamoring for her, by then she will settle...
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.