"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Quagmire911

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The diet looks great. Remember the carb cutoff 4-6 hours before bed.

I'd think about adding in maybe one HIIT day a week for anaerobic conditioning.

Have you gained weight in the last week? If not add another 300 calories a day, something like an extra two tablespoons of Olive oil. If you gained more than a pound do the reverse and drop a hundred or so calories a day.

Quagmire
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So after my last workout, it got the flu this time. I attribute it to going back to university and being in that germ factory, but man, my immune system must suck, because I wash my hands all the damn time.

Anyways, I'll probably be out for at least a week. Very bad timing, just as I was getting into the swing of things so to speak.

How should my diet look during this period of illness? still eat the same foods, but just less of them?
 

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Harpe said:
still eat the same foods, but just less of them?

yes, also drink lots of water, get in lots of vitamin C, and rest
 

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So, after a a month off from lifting I am back to start again.
I had a severe cold that lasted about 2 weeks, then a bout of food posioning.
The problem for the last week is that I have felt drained and out of energy. In the mornings my nose is a bit stuffed up and if I stay up too late (but only a a bit over 16 hours awake) my throat begins to tickle/get sore.

I have been taking it easy, drinking lots of water and eating lots of oranges/taking a multivitamin and eating the same foods though a lesser amount. One problem is that a couple of nights a week in the past 4 weeks I have only gotten 4-5 hours of sleep as I have to get up at 4:30am for work a few times a week. So, now I am going to try and get to sleep by 9, and I am hoping that working out and doing light cardio will help me be able to fall asleep easier.

So, first workout in a month today. Didn't feel 100% so I took it easy.

Deadlift 2x5 180lbs
Pendlow Rows 2x6 110lbs
DB curls 2x10 30lbs
Reverse forearm curl 2x10 40lbs
 

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So I think I'm finally over whatever it was I was fighting. After a few extra days off, I got back to it:

Hack Squats 2x5 200lbs
Hack Squats 2x13 130lbs
Stiff Leg Deadlift 2x8 145lbs
Calf Raises 2x10 180lbs

My scale broke but I'm going to reweigh myself soon, as it's like I'm starting over.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Remember the set of 15 on squats is ONE set and and not two.

I just read your first post again about you saying squats hurt your UPPER ARMS when the bar is on them. This doesn't make sense...
 

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Oh, I only did one set of 15 reps. The 2 is mistakenly there.

My shoulders/upper chest would hurt when I was doing front squats with the bar resting on them, not a regular or hack squat. That would indeed make no sense. I'm sure my form was a little off, but I'm more comfortable doing hack squats for the time being.
 
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