"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HarlequinMan's Approach Journal

HarlequinMan

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Dec 19th

I went to mall today and approached one girl as she walked past me

Me: Hey
HB7: Hi (wtf expression)
Me: arent you that girl?
HB7: (interest) which girl?
Me: the one who smiled at me earlier, we walked past each other and you smiled at me
HB7: could have been
....
....This goes on for 30 seconds then
Me: whats your name?
Her: HB7
Me: im Zach
*handshake*
Her: nice to meet you
Me: WHere are you from HB7?
Her: Israel
Me: blah blah
Her: BLAH BLAH
Her: how old are you?
Me; 19, you?
Her: im bigger than you
Me: no your not
Her: yes i am im 27 years old
Me: blah blah
Her: nice to meet you, holds my hand trying to shake it
Me: you too
(walk away)

Weird but im REALLY bad at telling age lol. Oh well, i got experience from it

ANy comment/ approach suggestions/ questions greatly appriciated.

Thanks! tomorrow i do at least 2 approaches!
 

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