"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hardest city to get women ??

thespecialist

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What do you guys think the hardest city to pick up women is and let me hear your reason why?

I say Vancouver, where B1tch shields and ASD is at ultimate highs. From what I heard and experienced is a lot of guys here think they can pick up women but have absolutely no idea what they are doing resulting in horrible pick up attempts.The more bad pick up attempts a girl experiences the higher her ASD goes on throughout the night. However this isn't always bad, I have had time where all of the sh1tty pick up attempts by other guys made me look good, and getting woman some nights has been really easy because of that. Also the city is very multicultural and a lot of the clubs I go to have a lot of Asian girls which already have a much higher B1tch shield and ASD than other girls.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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CHICAGO27

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Chicago has an abundance of attractive, spoiled, women. It seems like every spoiled brat from Michigan and Ohio finds themselves here.
 

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CHICAGO27 said:
Chicago has an abundance of attractive, spoiled, women. It seems like every spoiled brat from Michigan and Ohio finds themselves here.
Come with me to Old town or Wicker Park where ***** can't stay away from my c*ck
 

CHICAGO27

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Dgwizdal said:
Come with me to Old town or Wicker Park where ***** can't stay away from my c*ck
The Fireplace Inn and Burton Place are epicenter for this. There is a tall broad and a oldish Jewish chick. Watch out for those two! LOL
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think it depends on what you want/expect. If you want a girl with traditional values, any mid-sized city below the Mason-Dixon line is sure to have an abundance of those types. Down South, people here are VERY cliquish (or perhaps that's everywhere). It is not as easy to pick girls up in bars and clubs as it might be in a larger, metropolitan area. Many girls down here CRAVES to be seen as a "good" girl-next-door type, and they do all that they can to control that image.
 

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jglide123 said:
I think it depends on what you want/expect. If you want a girl with traditional values, any mid-sized city below the Mason-Dixon line is sure to have an abundance of those types. Down South, people here are VERY cliquish (or perhaps that's everywhere). It is not as easy to pick girls up in bars and clubs as it might be in a larger, metropolitan area. Many girls down here CRAVES to be seen as a "good" girl-next-door type, and they do all that they can to control that image.
hahaha ya I notice that as well in my city. I hate entering a club and feeling I walked into a highschool dance where everyone is in their large cliques and girls ASD will be through the roof because they don't want to look like *****s. I find that a lot with younger girls, whenever I went for an older woman ( in her 20's) it seemed like they were so much more down to earth and DTF.
 

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Cities are easy! Try a small town sometime. Every girl is pregnant, or she has two or 7 kids, she's been dating the same loser off and on for years and refuses to upgrade no matter what when she can easily do so if she wanted to, everyone knows your d@mn business and that takes a toll on your dating success, it's hard to find decent women that someone you don't know hasn't dated. I could go on and on. I'm from the south, have the accent to prove it. I fvcking cleaned up in Boston, New Hampshire and New York when I was there. CLEANED UP I TELL YOU! All I had to do was talk and BAM! girls swarmed me it seemed like. I was riding the subway in Boston, saw a cute girl knitting or doing some crap, she was all keeping to herself and all I said was "that looks hard, you must be really talented". I am not lying when I say that girl looked up, smiled, and talked my fvcking ear off the whole trip. She even gave me her number to call her while I was in town and we'd go out sometime, she'd love to show me around. Too bad I was leaving that afternoon. All I'm saying is take me out of my element and I fvcking shine like you wouldn't believe. However, in my element I struggle a lot of times. I don't know why.
 

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anyone who says anything other than any town outside of atlanta in the deep south, is wrong. "oh chicago the women are spoiled" "oh the women in boston are mean" dude every woman in little rock is either a trashy slut, a druggie, is just ignorant beyond belief and the few nice ones are locked up

there are no single well adjusted women down south hardly.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Atlanta.

Women here are trying to become the real housewives and have high entitlement issues. Young and old women think they're deserving of a Falcons player!
 

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I'm from Chicago to (northside) it has been harder, but I am not in the best shape right now. Not fat by chubby. I still bag girls from time to time depending on how my mindset is for the night. Wicker Park is my favorite I think I have my best getting chicks ration at Wicker Park. I will be honest, never got laid from Wrigley....the girls there are super stuck up college douche *****s. And I have an edge to me. I did get close at one bar in Wrigley forgot what it was called, I think trace or trance. Had a chick come up to me actually flirting, had her going, but I needed a few more drinks, she wasn't bad...just to easy and I wanted some what of a challenge. My friend ended up bagging her (thank god) desperate females worry me for some reason
 

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When I was in high school and my college years it was so easy to get chicks, bottle of liquor maybe a bag of weed. BAM, they most likely to chill "get up on a session" Chicago has to many stuck up transplants like the poster said. I'm not really good at bagging white girls unless they are italian, I have really good luck with them for some reason. It is harder though, I know more then half my friends were on a drought and just settled lol.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PeasantPlayer said:
I'm from Chicago to (northside) it has been harder, but I am not in the best shape right now. Not fat by chubby. I still bag girls from time to time depending on how my mindset is for the night. Wicker Park is my favorite I think I have my best getting chicks ration at Wicker Park. I will be honest, never got laid from Wrigley....the girls there are super stuck up college douche *****s. And I have an edge to me. I did get close at one bar in Wrigley forgot what it was called, I think trace or trance. Had a chick come up to me actually flirting, had her going, but I needed a few more drinks, she wasn't bad...just to easy and I wanted some what of a challenge. My friend ended up bagging her (thank god) desperate females worry me for some reason
TBOX this weekend? Gana be a Rager...
 

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South Florida is no picnic. We've got spoiled rich girls, gold diggers, white trash, not to mention the number of rehab facilities in the area. People come from all over the country to detox.
 

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The #1 factor is male to female ratio.

Here are the cities I've spent a lot of time in in the past 3-5 years:

1) Orlando, FL - Terrible place to meet women. Girls expect you to have a boat to get laid.

2) Dallas, TX - Awesome for meeting women. Women throw themselves at you. I was never single in Dallas. In my first hour the barmaid from a Ruth's Chris left with me (I got there 5 minutes before closing) and she showed me another great bar where I picked up another girl and the first girl stormed out.

3) Cleveland, OH - Awesome for meeting women but not a great place to be. Picked up 2 babes in 2 nights (one relationship).

4) Melbourne, FL - Terrible place to meet women, especially coming from Dallas where you'll get the "As if" attitude all of a sudden.

5) Houston, TX - Terrible place to meet women. There are ZERO hot girls at regular bars, and DOZENS at strip bars.

6) New York City, NY - Not a very good place women. The barmaids are all dating some trucker who can barely afford to live there and they'll just glare at you. But you can meet hot girls who are not from there originally.

7) Boston, MA - I'm from there so it's hard for me to be open minded. The girls are tough but real. It's a middle of the road city IMO.

8) San Francisco Bay Area, CA - Awesome place to meet women. If you are straight and can afford to live there you'll have more phone numbers than you can possibly call. I spent the summer there and loved it. I just got back yesterday (after 7 weeks gone). I went there for 2 days for an interview and had a date waiting for me (who I had only seen on two occasions in my life prior). I actually triple booked dates and blew two girls off.

Other cities where it's easy to meet hot women: Spokane, WA. Cedar Rapids, IA. Portland, OR. Seattle, WA.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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