"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hard truths

Blackgame

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over my many years of going over this stuff the same few problems always appeares. so ill go over some of them here

there are some hard truths that i want u guys to realise:

1) not every girl will find you attractive
some of you have a some false hope that game whether natural, mm, or whatever other style you want to fallow you are not gonna get every girl you find attractive… now there is a way to attract certain types of women which is called sexy sterotyping, but even then there isnt much you can do.

2) if you are not appraching then you wont get better

when i say approaching i mean putting yourself out there you wont get the results you think you should be getting. if a painter wanted to get better at painting he wouldnt sit on his bottom and think about painting. the only way to get better is to do and by do i mean do alot…like alot

3) way too much pressure on yourself
for most of you this isnt a job its a hobby and it should be treated as such. you dont have to have a girl friend right now, you dont have to have a “team” of women to love you, those things come to those that seek them over time

4) at the end of the day they are just women
sure they smell better than we do, sure they are softer and prettier than we are and have the greatest things in the world floating on their chest called breats :) but at the end of the day they are still only human and they have the same wants and needs that we do (sex, food, conpanionship ect) treat them as such, respect them as such we are here to love each other not bully each other this isnt halo reach ( buy this for me guys lol… seriouslly)

recap:
game is not the be all to end all
you got to approach to get better
ease up on the pressure on yourself
women are human to

buy me halo reach :)

as always one love

live life, love life
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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nismo-4

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5. Women have a very high market value and now grannies, fatties, and uglies are acting like Pop divas!

6. Some guys have all the luck.

7. Rejection is unavoidable.

This was a good post, and should have been put in the tips section. I'd like to see more added to this list.
 

PapiChulo

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nismo-4 said:
5. Women have a very high market value and now grannies, fatties, and uglies are acting like Pop divas!

6. Some guys have all the luck.

7. Rejection is unavoidable.

This was a good post, and should have been put in the tips section. I'd like to see more added to this list.

ha ha hell yeah-so true, I see some uglies acting like they are the **** or on the shoulder of good-looking guys. I am tall, handsome, smart European guy, well-off financially, albeit a uni student - I should be the type any young average woman would fall for, sadly, that's not the reality.
 

initiatorhater06

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and the fact that us guys always have to initiate everything, while the girl does nothing and she is along for the ride
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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