Have any of you ever had a problem of havin sex When you know its there. Im talkn to this girl and she is very pretty and gives me good signs. She just was at my house, and we made out a lot and watched movies, but for some reason I feel a little awkward around her like after we kiss the look I give her isnt right. I've had like 6 girls in my life where I had the ***** for the taking, but I poked around and couldnt find the hole and embarrased myself. I had a gf for a year, so i finally learned how to get it in and all of that. So I've slept with 5 women couldve been 10. Recently tho, I had a real cute girl ready to do it, but I couldnt get it up and keep it up.. it was burtal. Its like somethings holding me back telln me I shouldnt be doing this maybe because of how I was raised. ANyone have any advice. I was touching this new girls body, but I feel like im holding back because I dont wanna mess this one up. I think we have pretty good potential to get together. What should I do
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MMA Juan
Don Juan
The reason you can't get it up is because of your frame of mind bro. Its because you don't want to stuff up, that your feeling nervous-thus, no boner.Recently tho, I had a real cute girl ready to do it, but I couldnt get it up and keep it up..
You have to try to relax a bit, and it'll come all good. because i know advise is easier said then done, what i suggest you try is up the foreplay.
Never underestimate the power of foreplay. Not only kissin and touchin her all over will get you goin rock solid, but it'll make her crave every second until she won't be able to handle it.
Another tip since we're on the topic, when she does want it, hold back from fvcking her for a few more minutes and up the foreplay- when you get down and dirty, trust me... she'll be glad she waited, and when you see her face you'll lose that nervousness because you'll already be halfway there.
Peace
-MMA Juan
With me though its all mental. I have good stamina when im comfortable. I just cant relax and fear messing things up. Basically with the negative experiences i've had, I really dont want this to happen again with this new girl because she has wifey potential.
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
yeah man this is such a COMMON problem that I think we should make the answers a sticky... Seriously.. Don't feel like you are alone.
It's nerves. If you arent relaxed and INTO it.. it can really mess you up. You are thinking too much. You are inside your head and not lost in your lust.
Sex is very carnal. Get intouch with the animal inside and take what you want. Enjoy the moment. Think about how sexy she is... How good that warm wet is gonna feel... mmmm its gonna be fvcking hot.. arghhhh I wanna eat her up... I'm a FVCKNIG ANIMAL!! *attack*.. lol, thats seriously how I naturally get in the mode.
If you are into, everything is gonna work like a champ, if you know what i mean.
I think the worst thing is when you have a bad experience and were limp once... Then the next time you are AFRAID that it will happen again. So you are all worried, praying you will get hard when making out with her. And thenh low-and-behold, you are limp again.
Its cause you arent letting go. You gotta just be a man. be an animal. Get intouch with your instictual self. thats basically what it comes down to.
....When I was 17, I was getting it on with this filipino girl. She was really tiny. and it was so tight and i was pretty inexperienced that I couldnt get it to push in. Finally I lost it and it wouldnt come back, it freaked me out. the next time we tried I was scared that it would go away again and it never really even came.. I was freaking out. Then I realised that I gotta just relax and get into and it worked like a charm.
Alcohol can hurt you aswell... whiskey ****.
Masturbating too much or too aggressively I think can hurt you aswell. If you are used to jacking off like a fvcking jackhammer then a girls "inexperienced" soft touch aint going to do it for you. Cut back on how often you jerk it.. and when you do keep it something very subtly stimulating. So that way whatever you two are doing together will feel really good to you... that the best way to get intouch with the animal within, is get hard cause its physically feeling great... the animal will ROAR!!!
Don't be afraid to *** to soon with her... Atleast you had your fun... Alot of guys hurt themselves cause they dont want to *** in like a minute. But if you arent used to her pvssy how can you expect to last so long?? a new vagina is the best thing EVER! unless I'm getting alot of sex I'm an easy customer in that department.. and I don't care, thats natural.. feels great.
foreplay and even after you came giving her what she wants will always make up for it.
It's nerves. If you arent relaxed and INTO it.. it can really mess you up. You are thinking too much. You are inside your head and not lost in your lust.
Sex is very carnal. Get intouch with the animal inside and take what you want. Enjoy the moment. Think about how sexy she is... How good that warm wet is gonna feel... mmmm its gonna be fvcking hot.. arghhhh I wanna eat her up... I'm a FVCKNIG ANIMAL!! *attack*.. lol, thats seriously how I naturally get in the mode.
If you are into, everything is gonna work like a champ, if you know what i mean.
I think the worst thing is when you have a bad experience and were limp once... Then the next time you are AFRAID that it will happen again. So you are all worried, praying you will get hard when making out with her. And thenh low-and-behold, you are limp again.
Its cause you arent letting go. You gotta just be a man. be an animal. Get intouch with your instictual self. thats basically what it comes down to.
....When I was 17, I was getting it on with this filipino girl. She was really tiny. and it was so tight and i was pretty inexperienced that I couldnt get it to push in. Finally I lost it and it wouldnt come back, it freaked me out. the next time we tried I was scared that it would go away again and it never really even came.. I was freaking out. Then I realised that I gotta just relax and get into and it worked like a charm.
Alcohol can hurt you aswell... whiskey ****.
Masturbating too much or too aggressively I think can hurt you aswell. If you are used to jacking off like a fvcking jackhammer then a girls "inexperienced" soft touch aint going to do it for you. Cut back on how often you jerk it.. and when you do keep it something very subtly stimulating. So that way whatever you two are doing together will feel really good to you... that the best way to get intouch with the animal within, is get hard cause its physically feeling great... the animal will ROAR!!!
Don't be afraid to *** to soon with her... Atleast you had your fun... Alot of guys hurt themselves cause they dont want to *** in like a minute. But if you arent used to her pvssy how can you expect to last so long?? a new vagina is the best thing EVER! unless I'm getting alot of sex I'm an easy customer in that department.. and I don't care, thats natural.. feels great.
foreplay and even after you came giving her what she wants will always make up for it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yea this is definately a common problem that we all face. Everyone should post thoughts and suggestions for solving this. ONe thing I thought about was practicing with chicks I dont care about to gain experience, but I dont really wanna **** lower quality chicks
Mr Autobahn
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I think you are forcing the situation. Do you REALLY want to have sex with her or are you rushing the sex thing?
And are you just interested in counting the number of girls you sleep with?
And are you just interested in counting the number of girls you sleep with?
realsmoothie
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To quote Eddie Murphy...
"Hey, baby, you got a shoe horn or somethin'?"
"Hey, baby, you got a shoe horn or somethin'?"
realsmoothie
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Wow, nice triple posts. Goddamn wireless connection.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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