"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hard to find like mined "men"

Chosen1

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Is it just me or is it hard to find like minded men in my area. There just don't seem to be any men intrested in going out and "learning" how to attract women and just overall improving their lives. I live in south Bend Indiana and I'm tempted to start driving to Chicago Illinois just to meet up with a pua or dj . I really want to improve myself in this area of my life and feel like I can have any woman I want I just would like to meet someone who thinks like me. Do any of you guys experience this problem or no?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Chosen1

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i guess I'm just asking how do I go about finding someone to go out and practice with
 

Solomon

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come on now

Chosen1 said:
i guess I'm just asking how do I go about finding someone to go out and practice with
Dude go out and practice by yourself
No one is gonna hold your hand doing this shyt
sure having a wing man is great but when you go out your gonna push yourself to improve. When I started I was driving to the boonies in Wisconsin dolo, I had to talk to people or I would end up looking like a lame. Eventually I did meet up with wings. Go out by yourself a few times, get the confidence to trust in your own abilities. To problem is to many guys rely on "wings" as a crutch. You'd be surprised how much better your game will be when you go by yourself

peace
 

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Solomon said:
Dude go out and practice by yourself
No one is gonna hold your hand doing this shyt
sure having a wing man is great but when you go out your gonna push yourself to improve. When I started I was driving to the boonies in Wisconsin dolo, I had to talk to people or I would end up looking like a lame. Eventually I did meet up with wings. Go out by yourself a few times, get the confidence to trust in your own abilities. To problem is to many guys rely on "wings" as a crutch. You'd be surprised how much better your game will be when you go by yourself

peace
Yeah I will practice by myself that's the smart thing to do I just don't want to step into a club and be surrounded by a gang of niggas you know. Thanks solomon you a cool brother.
 

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dude i know what you mean, the town i live in has a population of seventy people, the nearest gas station is ten miles in each direction and it takes an hour just to get to a movie theater.

Just go out by yourself and youll do fine
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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PapiChulo

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I find myself teaching my chump friends when they are after a chick. I only wish I could have somebody like me or better, than we would be pretty much unstoppable, sharing experiences, learning mutually, etc.
 

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PapiChulo said:
I find myself teaching my chump friends when they are after a chick. I only wish I could have somebody like me or better, than we would be pretty much unstoppable, sharing experiences, learning mutually, etc.
sadly that's what I'm gonna have to do good thing I'm single though
 

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There's nothing to learn really. You don't learn how to attract any chick because even if possible it would be too much effort and once you realize how easy it is to attract some chicks from every subset you just of be and it happens without any effort.

I cannot get any chick nor would I want to try. What I can do is get any kind of chick.. blonde with huge tits, stripper, rich chick, milf... I would never try to get specific chicks per say but I have an idea what I like and I attract some of that like I dunno it just happens. You dont really need to do anything after a while but you need to spend a little effort in the beginning to get things going but it cannot really be taught you just have to keep meeting women until you're comfortable with yourself and then it just happens almost automatically
 
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