"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hard time talking to this new girl I met

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Been chatting with another chick I may smash later.

Meanwhile other chick has started to like my fb posts & still watching my snapchat like a hawk. I think she's trying to lure me to say something to her. (Which I'm not breaking NC!)

Update 1-10-15

I've been watching Corey Wayne tips on NC & other things. Didn't hit her up at all & behold nearly 1 week later she hits me up. Asks a random question " if I worked Tuesday" I casually answered yes. I get to work & she has her hair all done ect and says hi. I said hello just like I did everyone else with a smile. Now she's been lingering in my dept ( kitchen) making excuses to get things.

So I ask do I keep doing what I'm doing? Not speaking to me unless she does or something else?
 
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