Hard Position with 'nice girl'

[kizza]

Ok this has totally got me out of nowhere so I'll try and explain briefly.

I met this girl like 2 weeks ago and we have been chatting on MSN, a few texts and thats about it. I used C+F and the similar kinda thing etc.

She was rather good looking and so I thought she'd have the boy's all over her (she's 14, im 15). I was talkin to her earlier and found out she had never had a proper boyfriend so was like wtf?? She started asking me similar things and I didn't wanna say much (there's not much to say!)

She says she has loads of boys asking her out but always says no. Her friend said that she is good friends with this boy and 'if she were to go out with anyone, it would be him'.

So the problem is I need to get her more interested in me, I think I've been placed in the dreaded friends category already. I'll be seeing this girl every saturday at this school (but we havent really talked in person before).

Should I forget about her? (I'm definitely interested in her). Should I continue and see what happens? How would I go about this. I'm just surprised/confused.

Any help/advice please.

One last things, she's completely 'square' (for those of u who dnt get it, she's not been to first base yet.)

Thanks

 

[musclyjerk]

First of all, stop believing what girls say.

As far as you're concerned, she has been to first base before and she has had a 'boyfriend' at some point. She may also be seeing other boys right now, could be playing around with them all and you with the help of her friend since she is 14 and will be immature and honing her skills as a young c*nt in the making, seeing how guys respond, how she can control them.. blah. Oh, they find this all very amusing and entertaining.

Young chicks collect weak guys to use, abuse and play with. Don't be one of them!

Start to withdraw your interest in her and start becoming 'busy' and unavailable. When you do GRACE her with your presence, make sure you create some sort of interest. Do not do any of this like it's obvious what you're trying to do - she will eat it up and play back twice as hard to prove herself and her b**** skills, then proceed to tell all of her friends for a jolly good laugh.

She should be or start to initiate conversation with you if she thinks you're worth anything at all - if she doesn't, forget her.

Oh I'm such a cynic . . .

The Muscly Jerk

 

[sparky0000]

i think muscly has been burned one too many times. am i the only one who hasn't had really bad experiences with girls on here?

 

[The Shocker]

whoops.

 

[The Shocker]

Just grab your balls and ask her out. Then you will know where you stand, friend zone or not.

About the other guy: there is ALWAYS going to be other guys that chicks you are dating are more attracted to. Always, even if you're Brad Pitt. What matters is that YOU are the one going out with her, not other guy.

 

[kizza]

ok guys thanks. i was thinking that was muscly said was possible (though i wasn't completely sure)

 

[MissionX]

For sparky0000:

Welcome to my world, I haven't had any really bad experiences. But I could probably name a few who have either been slapped, had drinks thrown at him/her, and kicked in the shins and punched out, or just totally got there ass kicked by some nasty mean ass girls.

For Kizza:

Go for it, it never really hurts to try, unless she is a phsyco biatch, and attacks you with rondom objects within her grasp. And remember GIRLS TALK about EVERYTHING. So if you find yourself in a losing situation, turn everything around into making her think she likes you, and that you have no interest. Works most of the time. So hit on her, if no reaction, throw everything around so that it appears that she was hitting on you, which in turn makes her believe she actually likes you. And not the other way around.

It's all a mind game really, once you understand how to pull random stuff off, use it all together in no specific order, be creative, and have fun. And do me a favour, wear a condom, so I don't have to deal with "**** I got her pregnant". Not to be rude of course.

Payne

 

[kizza]

haha lol. thx for advice ppl.