"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
yes, Yes, YEs, yES, YES, yes, yEs, YESSSS, yeeeees, and yes!!!!
Everything on here is true, and it is definitely part of being a DJ.
somewhatsuave
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Yo props on the post man. Lots of useful knowledge and positive messages.
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props bro
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Bonafide
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stfu
El brujo said:Yeah I noticed the metalhead stuff to, and he's kinda right you know. I had this whole metalperiod, and the only thing we did back then was: drinking, puking, impressing the ladies (!Hope you see the irony! )feeling miserable afterwards, . Now, it's better to listen to some good reggea and smoke something nice, allthough even smoking has some bad effects on the way you handle the ladies
it depends on how you take your music
i think his comment on metal heads was a bit stupid and generalised
i think that for happyness liek the topic suggets you listen to the music that makes you feel most comfortable, not to fit in with everyone
if you can filter out what other people think about your music and listen to it purely becuase you enjoy it only then can you be happy
But great post :rockon:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.