"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Happy
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
yes, Yes, YEs, yES, YES, yes, yEs, YESSSS, yeeeees, and yes!!!!
Everything on here is true, and it is definitely part of being a DJ.
somewhatsuave
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Yo props on the post man. Lots of useful knowledge and positive messages.
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props bro
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Bonafide
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stfu
El brujo said:Yeah I noticed the metalhead stuff to, and he's kinda right you know. I had this whole metalperiod, and the only thing we did back then was: drinking, puking, impressing the ladies (!Hope you see the irony! )feeling miserable afterwards, . Now, it's better to listen to some good reggea and smoke something nice, allthough even smoking has some bad effects on the way you handle the ladies
it depends on how you take your music
i think his comment on metal heads was a bit stupid and generalised
i think that for happyness liek the topic suggets you listen to the music that makes you feel most comfortable, not to fit in with everyone
if you can filter out what other people think about your music and listen to it purely becuase you enjoy it only then can you be happy
But great post :rockon:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.