"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Happy 2020 guys, I wish you all luck

backseatjuan

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It seems it was 2010 just a mig ago, time went by, unnoticable. I was 29 ten years ago, now I'm 39. My mother is 10 years older. My father died. I found out I'm adopted. Girlfriends come and went. Sht, time goes by quickly. Some of it was good, some of it was bad. You what bothers me? Besides it goes by so fast. It is that I havent' done enough. Not enough girlfriends. Not enough work. I wish you in this new year to move faster with things, meet more women, do more things. Set goals, achieve things. Take care of your finances, progress. Meet new women, don't get stuck on any one in particular, unless she chases you. Spin plates, have fun, do a lot of new exciting things, always try something new.

You know, I can say proudly that I jumped with a parachute this past decade. ;)

Oh yea, and best advice of 2019 from someone on sosuave who I forgot, props to whoever said it. Get on your own dck. Figure out what that means.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I feel you bro. I feel like 2020 is goinf to be a spiritual awakening. People need to realize these material things we chase are worthless and just racking up a sexual bodycount leads to emptiness. What matters is our soul bro. I hope everyone including myself can do some real soul searching this year because life is too short fellas. And honestly its not all about hedonistoc pleasures of sex money drugs partying etc. all those things are cursed. Yet we feel lost without them. Seek out real human connections and appreciation for the beauty of life. But realize that none of this u take with when u die so the impact thats made moment to moment is important for us to realize. Im slightly venemous on this forum because i feel there is alot of ignorance and i use it as an outlet as a means of freedom of speech and exchanging arguments and ideas with you all. None of this should be taken to heart as to me its more of a cultural thing because i am very American (overzealous, blunt, contrarion) in my nature which leads to issues sometimes.

Remember lifes not supposed to be all happy and comfortable all the time thats a lie. Life is struggle and pain as well and you need both to realize the existance of the other. I leave u fellas with this alex jones folk song which is great. Basically im the alex jones of this forum.

 

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I only wish the beginning of the 20s will be as good or more than the first half of the 10s was to me, after that world war III could happen for what I care.
 
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