"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Happiness

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So lets talk about happiness.

The biggest mistake people make is depending on external things for there happiness.

This could be drama, relationships, drugs and alcohol, video games, whether some one likes you or not and the list could go on and on.

Another mistake people make is they think happiness is feeling joyful all the time.

Wrong. Happiness is about dealing with life, whether it be awkwardly, or fantastically.

Only you are responsible for how you feel, and the choices you make.

The second you start to blame others for this or that, your giving away your power, and being a weak ass.

You will make mistakes, learn from them.

Ultimately it comes down to perception, how you look at things.

If some one takes advantage of you, its because you let them. You can't control anything but yourself, some things you can influence, but ultimately all you can control is you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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noobolgy said:
So lets talk about happiness.

The biggest mistake people make is depending on external things for there happiness.

This could be drama, relationships, drugs and alcohol, video games, whether some one likes you or not and the list could go on and on.

Another mistake people make is they think happiness is feeling joyful all the time.

Wrong. Happiness is about dealing with life, whether it be awkwardly, or fantastically.

Only you are responsible for how you feel, and the choices you make.

The second you start to blame others for this or that, your giving away your power, and being a weak ass.

You will make mistakes, learn from them.

Ultimately it comes down to perception, how you look at things.

If some one takes advantage of you, its because you let them. You can't control anything but yourself, some things you can influence, but ultimately all you can control is you.
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