"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Happily Divorced!!!

the_great_gaia

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Oh My God!!

This has to be the best day of my life!! I am officially divorced from a psychopath and it feels like i got a new lease on life itself!!

I married this crazy broad who I thought i was in love with back in 2005. I learned a lot of lessons along the way.

Marriage is SO taboo and it has become a tool that women use against MEN to control and manipulate them. I am SO never getting married again!! Women nowadays will ALWAYS cheat and lie to a man. Especially if he's in the military! But, nonetheless, unfaithful women have created a 'culture' for the ways they behave. There are no women worth 'marrying' so fvck em all!! HAHAHAHA! I am so glad I never got this bytch pregnant or I would have been fvcked, HAHAHAHA!!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Congratulations for being able to survive with all of your fingers in tact. So what did you learn from this encounter that you are going to do differently going forward?
 
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Where does your ex wife hang out? I do great with divorcees I'll post a field report.
 
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