"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hanging out

crossboss

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How do you hang out with a girl and stay out of the "friend zone". I was thinking of flirting and kino. I know of successful guys, who can hang-out and still fvck. And why is it, that females lose interest, once friends??
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yeah, I would think flirting and kino, lots of it....lots of playful teasing. Just be really fun around her, and be exciting, don't become predictable, and don't spend too much time around her when she's sad.
 

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ARrocket said:
Yeah, I would think flirting and kino, lots of it....lots of playful teasing. Just be really fun around her, and be exciting, don't become predictable, and don't spend too much time around her when she's sad.
Thanks.
 

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I wish you'd get more replies, I wanna know what others think. Especially with my current post out there (seducing a female friend).
 
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