"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hanging Out

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Wow.
I have improved socially so much.
I don't even worry about not having a girlfriend anymore.
I couldn't care less.

I used to be that guy that hung out with only 4-5 people in the whole school and went to a friends house to play video games once every couple of MONTHS!

Oh man, I was such a looser back then, but I still have much to improve on, and i'm sure i'll be looking back on this day and laughing at how pathetic I am right now.

Anyway... now people are on my ass about hanging out with me. It's Monday, and there's 3 people (2 male 1 female) that are already e-mailing me and asking me to hang out, and asking "what u wanna do this weekend?" and these are people I've never hung out with before.

So my question is: what do u guys do to hang out?
I usually do poker, movie, and video games. But what are some UNIQUE things that u guys do (that both guys and girls would enjoy)?

no mall- i fvcking hate the mall
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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Sports are usually good for both guys and girls.

Oh yeah, if you're ever gonna do video games with a girl, try and make sure it's something that'll keep you active and not sitting on the couch for an hour.
Guitar hero is a good one...if she doesn't know how to play it you can always show her first hand and apply some kino while you're at it.
DDR is awesome too.(In fact, this week I'm going over to a girls house to play DDR with her and give her a few pointers cause she just got it a couple weeks ago)
 

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bob88 said:
Sports are usually good for both guys and girls.

Oh yeah, if you're ever gonna do video games with a girl, try and make sure it's something that'll keep you active and not sitting on the couch for an hour.
Guitar hero is a good one...if she doesn't know how to play it you can always show her first hand and apply some kino while you're at it.
DDR is awesome too.(In fact, this week I'm going over to a girls house to play DDR with her and give her a few pointers cause she just got it a couple weeks ago)
oh i only do video games with my old guy buddies.

and sports like football?

i was thinking something like bowling or lazer tag.
 

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Crazy Asian said:
oh i only do video games with my old guy buddies.

and sports like football?

i was thinking something like bowling or lazer tag.
Whatever floats your boat dude.

Bowling I personally suck BAD at, so I wouldn't do that unless it was for lulz with a group of friends.

Laser tag is awesome BTW.
 
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