"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hanging out with multiple plates?

BongDuy

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Okay so I recently talked to several girls i am interested in and i thought the best way to hang out with them during the summer was the hit the beach. There will be probably 2-3 girls that i like that are coming with me and my friends. I was wondering how should i handle this? Should I try to "evenly" distribute my attention + kino to the girls i like without trying to make the other jealous? (if shes interested)

I may have worded the situation wrong, but let me know what you can make of this.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dude............A PLATE IS SOMEONE YOU ARE ALREADY SPINING........SEX!

U are talking gaming a 2-3 set of women.........win the crowd and then select a target.

No guy goes to a crowded beach with 3-4 hot chics and bangs them all...........U are watching too much porn.

Be friendly, socialize,offer your tan lotion services, ask if any of them want to go in the water to cool off............U know kinda like being genuine.

Just cause U are in a target rich enviroment DOES NOT MEAN YOU CAN JUST WHIP OUT YOUR PACKAGE AND YELL " OK LADIES WHOSE FIRST"


enjoy the moment, just dont over think it
 

Ease

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making them jealous is good

silly
 
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