"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hanging out with jerks

saber101

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At school, i hang around with alot of guys that are jerks. They are really rude and unsmooth around girls, and they couldn't score to save their lives. Do you think i should not hang around with them anymore? Because i think they kind of ruin my image when i hang around with them.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Damian

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If you think it's a problem. Make the choice and stick to it.

If your buddies are jack@sses and they ruin your image, you don't need em. Hang around them less and try to socialize with other groups. But don't be mean to those guys. They're still your buddies after all. You want to keep good relations with everybody, but skill keep your horizons open.

-Damian
 

Distant Light

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I not exactly sure how your friends act but my friends who act like jerks same way your friends probably act i would say it doesnt ruin your image. I'd say at times they can fuvk sh!t up such as asking do yall go out? , You looking for your bf?, or doing something that can ruin your game. Way my friends are, they see a hot girl with a nice ass right infront of them they would say "Damn girl! you got a donkey on your back", "Wow you have a amazing body", and any other slick remarks.

In the end i'd still hangout with them disregard there dumb remarks there sort of ****block remarks to the girls you game
 
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