I don't know if anyone else has this problem.. but lately it seems like I'm not getting any attention at all from the ladies. I usually hang out with my two best guy friends. They're both better looking than me. I'm not saying I'm ugly. I'm pretty attractive, I think.. if not, average. One of my friends is skinny but he has a good face (I'm not gay btw.. but I don't need to be to know what kind of guys are good looking) then another guy who is pretty big and bulky with an average face like mine.. I'm just kind of skinny, average face. I do however have a nice sense of style, but so do they.. so as you can see, I can kind of trailing along with them.. but only by a little bit. But anyway, it's enough to where when we are talking to girls that I can't even get a word in because these b!tches are too busy gawking over my friends. It kind of sucks. I also notice when girls walk by they're always looking at them too. I don't know what to do. I really don't want to hang out with less good looking people, just so I could be the best out of that group.. that is retarded.. I mean I like my friends, but it's kind of hurting my game a bit. I've been trying to be more DJ like, attitude wise. My friends kind of lack this, but they make up for it in looks. Sometimes I have to school them sometimes. I just hate the fact, I'm getting average 7s or so looking at me, while they get 8 and 9s looking at them. Advice guys? Thanks.
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Hanging out with better looking friends?
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How about your attitude?NFC said:
It's two simple things really:
1. Work on your game. Think about it: you're concerned that these chicks are gawking over guys's looks. Dude, that's just the initial part. I think you're letting that little stumbling block keep you from theconfidence that really emanates from that. Check that language and attitude at the door.
2. Work on your physique. Hit the gym. Hard. Ask anyone who's put in real time in the gym what the before and after effects have been for them, and they'll tell you. Nothing like knowing and feeling like a beast with raging hormones and testosterone.
Peace.
1. Work on your game. Think about it: you're concerned that these chicks are gawking over guys's looks. Dude, that's just the initial part. I think you're letting that little stumbling block keep you from theconfidence that really emanates from that. Check that language and attitude at the door.
2. Work on your physique. Hit the gym. Hard. Ask anyone who's put in real time in the gym what the before and after effects have been for them, and they'll tell you. Nothing like knowing and feeling like a beast with raging hormones and testosterone.
Peace.
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Your sense of style is just as important as your physique.
If you set yourself a apart from others when it comes to dress, why wouldn't you set yourself apart when it comes to other guys? This is what goes through a woman's head when they see a very well dressed man. You can hit the gym all you want, but when it comes down to it women want a masculine man who can make his own path.. not a someone who will follow the crowd.
If you set yourself a apart from others when it comes to dress, why wouldn't you set yourself apart when it comes to other guys? This is what goes through a woman's head when they see a very well dressed man. You can hit the gym all you want, but when it comes down to it women want a masculine man who can make his own path.. not a someone who will follow the crowd.
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Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
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Any guy who thinks they need to hit the gym all the time to be masculine are the same exact men getting turned down night after night. I see it with my own eyes, all the time.Charm said:
Masculinity isn't really about looks, but demeanor. You can hit the gym all you want and still be a follower of the crowd. You can hit the gym all day long for the sake of attracting women and still not know how to approach from lack of confidence. You can hit the gym all you want and still be a loser who sits at home with no aspirations. Sounds pretty unmasculine to me.
With that said, I'm at the gym frequently. But unlike many others, I don't feel like I need the gym to attract women. Some of the most succesful DJs I've met haven't seen the gym a day in their life. You don't need the gym to boost your confidence... I would never give up my personal achievements for a day at the gym.
When it comes down to it, you may be the biggest mofo around. Unfortunately, that means nothing if you can't set yourself apart from the crowd when talking to a woman. Women don't want meatheads, they want men who have set themselves apart either socially, sexually, or financially.
Who said anything about mommy and daddy's money?
As for the topic of the thread, hanging out with ugly ass guys is probably going to hurt your game if they follow you around and try to leech your women. Your friends are your friends though so hang with them when appropriate but if they are holding you back, they are not acting like the friends I would want.
You are actually very lucky. Having wingmen that attractive women want to meet is a freaking goldmine. Women are not guys - they really are less demanding on looks - that just gets you in the door and your buddies are already doing that for you. This whole "women who check me out are only 7's" thing is lame and not important. If you are decent looking and you are in there, being sharp, making her laugh and being confident that will carry you. I'm not saying you are gonna score every time, but it will take you damn far if you are good.NFC said: