"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hang out sesh or not?

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LaDanian Tomlinson

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I got this chicks number 2 weeks ago but didnt call her because i was busy. so i see her at work and tell her we should hang out this week like go ice skating or some **** like that. and she's like "is this is a date? because i have a boyfriend" and i'm like ****. "well it was a date...". then shes like "my boyfriend doesnt care if i hang out with other guys". and then i'm like "k ill see whats up with my schedule and then ill call you".

now the question is should i even bother with this girl if she has a boyfriend? her and her boyfriend are pretty steady i heard so i dont think she would cheat on him. if i hang out with her i dont think i would really get anything out of it. so what do you think hang out with her or NEXT her?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Don't waste your time with this one. You're better off staying clear so that you can avoid being taken advantage of.
 
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madseason said:
Don't waste your time with this one. You're better off staying clear so that you can avoid being taken advantage of.
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what do you mean to avoid being taken advantage of? taken advantage of what?
 
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