"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hands down, deadlift is king of back exercises...

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I've been doing them regularly now, and my ENTIRE back gets sore from them. I never got as good of a workout doing pullups, rows, etc. And it's funny because you're not pulling at all with your arms. With a good straight back, ie proper form, deadlifts were the missing key in my arsenal.

I say put this argument to rest, deadlift is THE best back exercise there is.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm sure they work the hips and sh1t to an extent. I feel it in my back, though. When I finish the lift, I pull my shoulders back and squeeze. Anything to increase the intensity...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Deadlifts and the variations can work the back, glutes, hamstrings, quads, grip, shoulders to an extent.

I've noticed in the about 6 weeks that i've been doing RDL's, my back, from the side view, has taken on more of a size growth. I love those mothers.
 

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deads are awesome.. just be careful..and make sure u are using perfect form..

i had a scare about 1 1/2 years ago.. i was abt 180lbs and deadlifting 405 and i got it up twice, but as i went to lift it the third time i got a shooting pain that went all the way down my back and to my legs.. lets just say i dont mess with anything over 315 these days and i use perfect form..

so basically enjoy the results, and be safe
 

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amen, brother
 

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Jeez. That dude is a beast. Goes to show how powerlifting and olympic lifting can turn you into a machine.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Deadlifts even eliminate the need to work the traps? As Doggcrapp would say: What do you think stimulate your traps the most? A 120lb shrug or a 500lb deadlift? There is your answer! :D
 

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dirtysanchez said:
No, hands down, deadlift is the king of ALL exercises.
"Hands down" is a bit overzealous don't you think?
 

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What I like about deadlifts is the "practical strength" gains. My ability to pick things up and move them around is directly related to my love of compound exercises -- I have one gym day where I just do 8 sets of one compound movement. I change up every few months between the squat, deadlift, and power clean.

I'm not real big -- 5'9", 170 -- but I'm always getting remarks on how strong I am for my size. "Damn, you're strong." "You're one of those wiry little guys." I can carry things that most guys my size can't.

Deadlift, power clean, squat. They don't make you pretty but they make you strong.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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youknowtherest said:
I'm not real big -- 5'9", 170 -- but I'm always getting remarks on how strong I am for my size. "Damn, you're strong." "You're one of those wiry little guys." I can carry things that most guys my size can't.
Haha yea i'm about 5'10 180 and don't really look that big... but i walk up to the plate in softball and the other team expects me to have no power... so i sometimes hear "holy sh1t" from the other team's bench as i clink one off the fence. hehe
 

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mrRuckus said:
"Hands down" is a bit overzealous don't you think?
ok, ok, not hands downs. one supinated, one pronated. ;)
 

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lmao.

People were amazed last January when I'd pop on 363 and deadlift it, or slide under 350 and bust out some squats...


and I only weigh 150
 

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Espi said:
Wow...that's a lot of weight...I usually stick to 45's on each side, 15 reps., perfect form, and I'm spent. It doesn't take a lot of weight for me to benefit from deads.
Really, that's it? I usually never go over around 275, for 10 reps. I don't know how much of a pump I could get from just 135. I'd like to hear more....
 

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Adding up my plates. . . . 2 45's & a 25 per side. . . 245? Around the 5th set, I usually drop the 25's. I take about 90 minutes and do 8 sets, with some cardio and stretching in between. I want to be able to do 8 X 8 of 245 before I go back to squats or cleans. Maybe in another month or two.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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