"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hands down, deadlift is king of back exercises...

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I've been doing them regularly now, and my ENTIRE back gets sore from them. I never got as good of a workout doing pullups, rows, etc. And it's funny because you're not pulling at all with your arms. With a good straight back, ie proper form, deadlifts were the missing key in my arsenal.

I say put this argument to rest, deadlift is THE best back exercise there is.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm sure they work the hips and sh1t to an extent. I feel it in my back, though. When I finish the lift, I pull my shoulders back and squeeze. Anything to increase the intensity...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Deadlifts and the variations can work the back, glutes, hamstrings, quads, grip, shoulders to an extent.

I've noticed in the about 6 weeks that i've been doing RDL's, my back, from the side view, has taken on more of a size growth. I love those mothers.
 

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deads are awesome.. just be careful..and make sure u are using perfect form..

i had a scare about 1 1/2 years ago.. i was abt 180lbs and deadlifting 405 and i got it up twice, but as i went to lift it the third time i got a shooting pain that went all the way down my back and to my legs.. lets just say i dont mess with anything over 315 these days and i use perfect form..

so basically enjoy the results, and be safe
 

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amen, brother
 

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Jeez. That dude is a beast. Goes to show how powerlifting and olympic lifting can turn you into a machine.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Deadlifts even eliminate the need to work the traps? As Doggcrapp would say: What do you think stimulate your traps the most? A 120lb shrug or a 500lb deadlift? There is your answer! :D
 

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dirtysanchez said:
No, hands down, deadlift is the king of ALL exercises.
"Hands down" is a bit overzealous don't you think?
 

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What I like about deadlifts is the "practical strength" gains. My ability to pick things up and move them around is directly related to my love of compound exercises -- I have one gym day where I just do 8 sets of one compound movement. I change up every few months between the squat, deadlift, and power clean.

I'm not real big -- 5'9", 170 -- but I'm always getting remarks on how strong I am for my size. "Damn, you're strong." "You're one of those wiry little guys." I can carry things that most guys my size can't.

Deadlift, power clean, squat. They don't make you pretty but they make you strong.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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youknowtherest said:
I'm not real big -- 5'9", 170 -- but I'm always getting remarks on how strong I am for my size. "Damn, you're strong." "You're one of those wiry little guys." I can carry things that most guys my size can't.
Haha yea i'm about 5'10 180 and don't really look that big... but i walk up to the plate in softball and the other team expects me to have no power... so i sometimes hear "holy sh1t" from the other team's bench as i clink one off the fence. hehe
 

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mrRuckus said:
"Hands down" is a bit overzealous don't you think?
ok, ok, not hands downs. one supinated, one pronated. ;)
 

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lmao.

People were amazed last January when I'd pop on 363 and deadlift it, or slide under 350 and bust out some squats...


and I only weigh 150
 

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Espi said:
Wow...that's a lot of weight...I usually stick to 45's on each side, 15 reps., perfect form, and I'm spent. It doesn't take a lot of weight for me to benefit from deads.
Really, that's it? I usually never go over around 275, for 10 reps. I don't know how much of a pump I could get from just 135. I'd like to hear more....
 

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Adding up my plates. . . . 2 45's & a 25 per side. . . 245? Around the 5th set, I usually drop the 25's. I take about 90 minutes and do 8 sets, with some cardio and stretching in between. I want to be able to do 8 X 8 of 245 before I go back to squats or cleans. Maybe in another month or two.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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