"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This post may qualify to be in AE, feel free to move it. I assume it will get better response in here, so here I am.



I work, super low, part time for a guy. Doing computer stuff. Listing sh1t on eBay, 12 an hour, then he wants me to do his web sites, basically build his business, 15 an hour. Well, the guy is a natural born player, or something like that. He's a brooklyn jew that supposedly raised himself out of brooklyn and now is living the good life. But whatever.

He is getting on my nerve. He is trying to set the frame such that I work for him cheap or free, in the promise of bigger pay later on. Same sh1t he've been doing to other people. So far, I havent done much for him, and only keep coming back because of this one chick that works for him. 20 year old columbian cuteness. Shes away now and Im replacing. But Im at a point where I get more satisfaction out of saying no to him and no to the chick. There are plenty of other chicks, and shes just another onetis I had a month ago.



So. Today is the day that I think might have done it. He's calling me and saying meet me at the game 12 sharp. I had doubts in my mind about 12 sharp, but whatever, I say Ill be there. I was going to fvck him today in the other way, tell him my laptop is being repaired so I have more time not doing his website. So I give 20 minutes after 12, he dont show up, I live and dont call him...



The idea of him for today was make me be there 12 sharp, then come late, and make me call him. Apperately that suppose to have a submission effect on me, so that he can proceed towards getting me do sh1t for him for free. :kick:

The fvcker is too fvcking obvious. Fvck him. All his cars are sh1t. My mustang will rape his DB7 automatic vert from the dig, plus that sh1t has rust. So, I'm here, not pissed off, not satisfied, just putting some thought into how to put maximum damage into that fvckwit.


He is going to call me later today, or tomorrow, or perhaps in 10 days, who knows. He needs me and so he will call me, plus he owns me money and I know his girlfriend. He is in deep sh1t, and he has to call, when he will, he is a submissive little b1tch........... So Im thinking conversation will go something to this point: he will say he was there 12 sharp and I wasnt, I will say no I was there 12 sharp, waited 20 minutes and he didnt show up so I left. Then he will realize that what he did had no positive effect, and he will try to setup another time. To which I'm thinking what to say:

This is where I need your help, DJs.


Im thinking Ill tell him, "I assumed you were a reliable honest person, but you lied, there is no future between us." He replies with anything I tell him "I only talk to people who are worth my time and respect, good bye, you can write the check to Debra, so and so" and then hang up. $87 I dont really care much for that money, and if dont pay up that will hurt him not me, so thats even better.

Give me some suggestions here?

Is it ok to say to a dude if he wants to play games like that he can go fvck the monopoly guy?


I think I'll record the phone conversation!!!! Give me some suggestions. I dont like being treated like crap and in all my years of experiece I havent been treated like this even in my AFC days. I want some revenge.










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Some history: More than a month ago I went to move his art gallery for 1 day. Then I worked for him about a week building website. At the end of week the pay was sh1tty low and he wanted to pay me super low. I said I'll let him know tomorrow, and never called him. In 10 days he called me, I told him I want $15 an hour, and full time. Several weeks later he called me back saying chick is leaving for 3 weeks I need you to work for me, $12 for regular eBay stuff and $15 for website. Either way its not what I wanted, as its not full time. Plus he's a b1tch, c0ck sucking b1tch. I get more enjoyement out of it if I say no....
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yea, so Im dealing with an insecure b1tch apperately. He left two messages so far, and Im busy so didnt pick up nor am I up to hearing those messages at the moment.

Last time I disrespected him, and this aint hard, he send two police officers to stake out (park bikes in the shade and pretend to be watching traffic in a private gated community)...

This time, and this time it only took 2 hours or so, I see a fat cop in a cruiser punch his siren right near my door, lights on. Pretending to be looking for a car...


Implied meaning while with that a55hole is that he is friends with top cop. Do I give a fvck? No, I dont give a flying fvck!


The route towards me doing hi websites for free is pretty much simple, make me a 100% legit driver license, so that I can drive my mustang. Thats all I want, nail it from the light. Instead, all this crap..



The route Im taking, and I thought this up before this cop incident, is make him pick me up right from down stairs, so that I dont have to walk to the gate anymore. The sole act of him having to drive quarter mile further is submissive, for him, and dominant for me, as so much value is placed into this stupid sh1t.


So what you think, fellows? Take a little small step towards dominating my boss have a shot at getting me a license and maybe that girl, or tell him to fvck himself right now? If he has to go through all this trouble, that means Im valuable, and that makes me feel special and fuzzy inside! Cop think is just that, nobody's gonna risk their career to send a message, plus people might have kevlar and automatic weapons and be a little on the crazy side. What I care about is respect, money, and *****es.
 

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Sounds to me like you're an illegal and he's holding that sh!t over your head and milking it. Buddy, you don't have any cards to play unless you bring him down with you through the INS and he knows it.

Do what you can to get the girl, but you're fvcked otherwise.
 

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If Im fvcked otherwise, then I cant get the girl, then there is no point in getting the b1tch in the first place..


You see, its like sort of like being in zone, after a while tension builds up, and you have low tolerance for rants and fvckwits. Thats what he is, a fvckwit. Cars are pieces of sh1t too, rust and sh1t, ewww. But he's able to make money because he's that much fvckwitted.

There is one simple thing, show a little respect.


Why Frank Lopez got fvcked up? Lack of respect..
 

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when he calls, tell him that while you were at the game the other day at 12 sharp and were waiting for him, you began to feel as if he stood you up. about 20 minutes later, you were approached with by a respectable fellow who offered you a job to do for the day and because you needed work, you did it.
furthermore, you will be no longer be doing business with him since he is not reliable. you have bills to pay and you can not pay them when he does not pay you for your services or he stands you up.

then i would tell him that if he tries to intimidate you with sending police officers to your home again you will report him to the irs and the ins.


however, you can avoid this entire thing by just not answering the phone!
you can ignore the crap out of him and make him feel like a little girl leaving messages for you, not realizing that you already quit.
it's his website and ebay that gets put on hold while he plays these games.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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