Handling Virgins - " Do you want a relationship at all ? "

[blind_one]

Matched with a chick on OLD around a month and half ago. She's 20, a slender, tall blonde.
Normally I would go for the kill quickly but she lives almost an hours time drive away, so I steered it a little bit differently. Innocent easterner, raised traditionally, convo goes well, then I steer it to her ''dark side'', turns sexual, turns out she is a virgin. I talk about it from a position of power, she suggests we meet, exchange numbers.

Two days later I am receiving dirty snap chats from that chick

From time to time I ping her and we exchange some texts, she calls ocasionally. I keep it light, fun and throw some nice innuendos in there. Recently she had lots of exams so I left her alone. She said its not fun to just send those pictures to me and not getting anything in exchange so I rewarded her a little bit for that investment.

I recieved like 6 videos and a dozen pictues in exchange.. LOL.

Point being three days later I see this text : " Do you want a relationship at all ? "

Naturally I want to uncage her unto the world, teach her a thing or two, and with so little investment, it is paying off. I am not a heartless bastard, yet this chick has had one boyfriend when she was 16 and they didn't go beyond kissing or a t!tty grab and there, she is craving it badly. It would be good for her to get all that pressure off herself, and I would take pleasure in it as well

Your perspective is appreciated. If you are curious about what happens next, just say so as I am probably going to visit her sometimes soon when her flat mates are out of town for the weekend.

I will probably respond to her along the lines of :

" I would like to meet you first and see where it goes from there " - which I think would be ideal, and is actually true to some extent.

 

[sazc]

lol, she's not a virgin...it's a ruse she uses with men

remember "ALL women are manipulative"

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Yeah honestly, I doubt that any hot chick is a virgin nowadays. Like I get shocked every time I think a chick is a virgin and then find out she really isn't. I can usually tell if they are, but sometimes I have doubts. I realize it's best to assume they aren't. I've seen fat ugly slobs tell me how they sleep around and sh!t (like that's how you know she REALLY sleeps around, if she ain't afraid to even tell you). B!tch said it was so she could get a bag of weed and smoke it with her friends haha. So yeah, I'd be doubtful if I were you.

Only thing I ask for is for you to not make her jaded about men and then screw a bunch of other guys over later on the future.

 

[sch]

My experience shows that getting sexual over the text usually leads nowhere. Would you please report back after you seal the deal?

 

[blind_one]

I fully understand your doubts and I would not be surprised it she actually was not a virgin yet something is a amiss. If she is not , well I won't care unless she has underlying issues for deceiving me but that is another matter alltogether.

@sazc Thanks for the heads up , silly puppies trying to get their way with me.

@ImTheDoubleGreatest! I don't think of myself as that kind of person. I am brutally honest most of the time when asked point blank. I might elude the issue but I wouldn't outright like in her face. Create a good atmosphere for ourselves,have fun, spread knowledge.

@sch Definitely will do it once and IF it is all said and done.


Already too much analysis. Proceeding.

 

[sazc]

Proceed with caution