"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Handling V-day w/girl losing interest

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Kbish828

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I met this girl about a month and a half ago. At first, she was very much into to me. We texted all the time and hung out a lot. Then I started to become too available (not DJ) and she has been losing interest. I noticed this about a week ago, and I have not had contact with her for 3 days now. My question is, what do I do about Valentines Day? Do I continue no contact or get her a little something? I still like her, and I know she still has some feelings for me. By avoiding her on V-day is that a deal breaker or a good idea?

Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hold out

Don't do anything... you've been chasing this chick and she's showing signs of low interest. YOu have to flip it... outwit and outwait the girls. Stop chasing her and see if she notices and starts reaching out to you.

When she does that, chit chat a bit, then say, whats up? You want to hang out sometime?

Answers:

Yes - "What days are you available this week to get together"... set up the date!

No - "Ok, well great talking to you! I have to run now - Keep in touch"

Wait til she reaches out again...

Rinse and repeat
 
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Kbish828 said:
I met this girl about a month and a half ago. At first, she was very much into to me. We texted all the time and hung out a lot. Then I started to become too available (not DJ) and she has been losing interest. I noticed this about a week ago, and I have not had contact with her for 3 days now. My question is, what do I do about Valentines Day? Do I continue no contact or get her a little something? I still like her, and I know she still has some feelings for me. By avoiding her on V-day is that a deal breaker or a good idea?

Thanks
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Did you bone her? If you haven't, pretty much a lost cause - no point in further contact from you.

If you haven't, no point in further contact from you until she re-initiates (if she does).

Classic mistake guys make - thinking more = more. Less = more. If a girl isn't interested (or has lost interest), becoming even MORE available (as you're doing) is just going to make it worse. If she likes you, she'll come to you. If she doesn't, it's not the end of the world; go find another.
 
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