"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Handling this "Cvck Block"...??

Todd Preston

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How would you handle this:

I'm at a local Pub accross the street from my office.

I see a girl in the corner of the Bar nicely dressed and chatting with a few people (male - female) and i sneak over to position myself and then strike up a conversation. She tells me she's there alone and just having a drink before heading home.

Things are going well...and i suggest we go outside and have a Cigarette (don't smoke much but when the occasion arises i take a puff).

Anway, the conversation gets really hot and moves towards Sex. She's a little soused and i can see she's horny from her body language. She's starts talking about BJ's and judging men on the size of their member. I'm just about to make my move and get her back to my car for some action when some short little biotch comes outside and asks "Is everything alright?"

I look at her and then at the CB and say "yeah...we're just talking."

The CB looks at her and says "are you alright...is everything ok?" The Girl looks at her and says "yes...i'm ok" smiles.

Anyway, after that, the moment was ruined (SOB). My Target just does a mood change and then the conversation changes to mudane crap. I got her number, but i doubt it will do any good. This chick was a one-nighter..and the oportunity was lost to some CB.

What would you have done?

How would you have handled the CB?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hover411

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Perhaps you lost your frame and she noticed you were bothered by the the CB?

Or did she notice you start to look worried you might lose her?

If you were smooth in brushing him off, and kept flowing, she would have probably kept going.

Women can sense doubt in a guy and an attitude change pretty quickly.

Sound about right?
 

Todd Preston

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No bro...you're not reading well today.

1- it was a CHICK who did the **** block

2- it was the target who changed her mood.

Next time i see that CD chick i was thinking about startin some **** with her....maybe dump a pitcher of beer on her head.....LOL!


hover411 said:
Perhaps you lost your frame and she noticed you
were bothered by the the CB?

Or did she notice you start to look worried you might lose her?

If you were smooth in brushing him off, and kept flowing, she would have probably kept going.

Women can sense doubt in a guy and an attitude change pretty quickly.

Sound about right?
 

Tony T

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Could have been a random occurrence and just some Bad Luck on your part.

Don't sweat it...these chicks are Stupid and unfortunately everywhere.

You did nothing wrong.
 
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