"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Handling this "Cvck Block"...??

Todd Preston

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How would you handle this:

I'm at a local Pub accross the street from my office.

I see a girl in the corner of the Bar nicely dressed and chatting with a few people (male - female) and i sneak over to position myself and then strike up a conversation. She tells me she's there alone and just having a drink before heading home.

Things are going well...and i suggest we go outside and have a Cigarette (don't smoke much but when the occasion arises i take a puff).

Anway, the conversation gets really hot and moves towards Sex. She's a little soused and i can see she's horny from her body language. She's starts talking about BJ's and judging men on the size of their member. I'm just about to make my move and get her back to my car for some action when some short little biotch comes outside and asks "Is everything alright?"

I look at her and then at the CB and say "yeah...we're just talking."

The CB looks at her and says "are you alright...is everything ok?" The Girl looks at her and says "yes...i'm ok" smiles.

Anyway, after that, the moment was ruined (SOB). My Target just does a mood change and then the conversation changes to mudane crap. I got her number, but i doubt it will do any good. This chick was a one-nighter..and the oportunity was lost to some CB.

What would you have done?

How would you have handled the CB?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hover411

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Perhaps you lost your frame and she noticed you were bothered by the the CB?

Or did she notice you start to look worried you might lose her?

If you were smooth in brushing him off, and kept flowing, she would have probably kept going.

Women can sense doubt in a guy and an attitude change pretty quickly.

Sound about right?
 

Todd Preston

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No bro...you're not reading well today.

1- it was a CHICK who did the **** block

2- it was the target who changed her mood.

Next time i see that CD chick i was thinking about startin some **** with her....maybe dump a pitcher of beer on her head.....LOL!


hover411 said:
Perhaps you lost your frame and she noticed you
were bothered by the the CB?

Or did she notice you start to look worried you might lose her?

If you were smooth in brushing him off, and kept flowing, she would have probably kept going.

Women can sense doubt in a guy and an attitude change pretty quickly.

Sound about right?
 

Tony T

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Could have been a random occurrence and just some Bad Luck on your part.

Don't sweat it...these chicks are Stupid and unfortunately everywhere.

You did nothing wrong.
 
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