"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Handling the Biotch . . .?

Todd Preston

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I was out at a restaurant - bar - grille on Saturday waiting for some chick to call me....however the wait turned out to be in vain (she called and said she was tired and wanted a rain check). It was no sweat because 15 min earlier, i had just Sarged a HB 8 at the food store and got her number and set up a future date (these broads are so flaky that u don't know which way is up with them).

Anyway, while i finishing my beer, i noticed a HB 9 in the corner hanging with her girlfriend HB7 and finishing up her meal. She was tall, Big Tits and curvy arss...just the way i like them.

I waited for them to finish their meal and then strolled up to the table and struck up a conversation.

ME: Hey, did you guys just come from the Tim Mcgraw Concert?
HB7: No...we didn't....did you?
ME: yes...i did (flashing a big grin).
ME: (directing towards HB9) Do you like country music?
HB9: No...i used to be into it for about 10 yrs but not anymore
ME: Oh...what happened...did some cowboy break your heart?
HB9: no....i got tired of it....and it was just a to slow. (she picks up her phone and starts texting).
ME: so...u need a faster pace...R YOU a go-go dancer?
HB9: (Obviously annoid) Yeah...i am...bottomless.
ME: Nice...yeah i heard you make more money when you strip all the way down.
HB9: (just frowns, and continues to text).
HB7: (waves her hands at her friend as if to say "what did u say that for?")
ME: i look at the HB7 and smile..."nice meeting you!"
HB7: Nice meeting you too (she says with disappointment).

...I turned and strolled away to another area of the bar.

Anyway...this is something that happens to Players all the time. You run into 2 chicks, one of them is way hotter than the other. But at the same time there's ALWAYS a biotch in the crowd to deal with.

HOW do you handle the BIOTCH in these situations?

Looking for some constructive comments...

thanks~!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kailex

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At that point, I would have shifted to HB7 and just gone for her.
A woman pulling out her phone is an obvious sign.
 

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If you wanted to be diabolical, you should have gone for the 7 and made the 9 jealous. Then you might have had your pick. Jealousy is a powerful tool and especially *****es don't like to feel like they are the second choice.
 

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True Dat...

Won't happen again.

Seems like more and more Biotches are showing up on the screen.

I'm gonna learn how to VERBALLY handle them...give um back some of their own chit.

;)
 

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This happens to me often. Usually there's always one biatch in the crowd. Hitting on a group of girls of 2 or more by yourself makes you look like a player (almost creepy). Get a wingman, that definitely increases your chances.

Or focus on hitting on girls when they have separated from the herd. If it's just me, I almost never hit on a group of girls unless I'm with an equal amount of guys. I typically wait for the time for her to be by herself, you greatly increase your chances.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you wait for the chicks to seperate (like go the bathroom, exit to their cars) you will be talking to very few chicks..

you gotta learn to approach a group and break in...

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HB9: no....i got tired of it....and it was just a to slow. (she picks up her phone and starts texting).<------ That was your cue to say "Have a good night ladies"
I commend you for approaching, you handled the situation pretty well.
The go go dancer question was pretty lame IMO. Treat a dame like a lady and a lady like a dame....by the way you described her,she sounds like a dame.
 

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U did the right thing...we can't always be SPOT ON everytime we encounter biotches.

HB9: yeah...i work as a dancer...bottomless
YOU: Oh kewl...yeah my sister does that...and she says she makes more money that way too...but she does a couple of other things too...how bout you?

At that point the HB9 will be so flustered that she'll just give you a dirty look...at which point you give her the BIGGEST GRIN you can stretch and say "nice talkin to you"...and walk. If you can pull down your pants a little to show her your arse as you walk away...that's even better...turn your head back to look at her when you show her your arse....haha.

Don't take these biotches seriously...use sarcasm...works everytime.
 
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