"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Handling Multiple Prospects at Once

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As you get better at seducing women, you will inevitably happen upon a situation where 2 or more girls you are pursuing are in the same room at the same time.

Should you try to avoid one or more, they will come running over as if by some magnetic force. This is an extremely delicate and volatile situation.

Tips:

1) Each one has to believe you think she is the most beautiful.
2) Each one needs to think the other girl(s) you are with like her (they hate her).
3) Try to get them to kiss each other if possible (works if they are strippers).
4) If you pull off the three-way French kiss, you are God-like.
5) If two of them work together (and are not strippers), chances are it will implode once they talk.
6) You must excuse yourself and get out of there as soon as possible (bonus points if you somehow manage to kiss all of them goodbye one by one).

(Please add your suggestions here - I'm good but I'm not that good).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've been there. When I end up in this situation, I actually pull back on the usual attention I give each of the women. I spend less time with them and more time socializing with others. They usually try to lure me in a little harder because I'm busy distributing my time. I also give each of the women an equal amount of time to avoid any problems.

I have no desire for a threesome, so I never bother pursuing it.
 

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Desdinova said:
I have no desire for a threesome, so I never bother pursuing it.
I agree. Having a 3 way is like trying to pee with someone talking to you. But the 3 way French kiss (when 3 people form a triangle with their tongues) is one of the most exciting things I've ever experienced. It happened once in Houston by surprise with two girls who I never met (I had never even thought about it), and once in California when I was on a date and ran into a top prospect. I asked her after "Wait, which side of the kiss did you like better?" and she said "Hmm... I'll have to try again to know for sure".

The other day I actually had 3 women (ages 21, 26 and 30) who had texted me the night before all in the room together (two by chance, the third of whom who I brought a 21st birthday present). I got out of there, but today I landed a date with my favorite one (the 26 year old) for this Sunday.

Nothing sets the hook like their seeing other women who like you. That's why I used to have parties and invite every girl I knew. It's too hard to do on the road, but if you are popular in your town, have a party and hand out formal invitations (I would go with a World's Fair theme and print business card-sized invitations) to every pretty girl you see (they will bring the men), serve wine and homemade food, and it will be your best night.
 

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bigneil said:
As you get better at seducing women, you will inevitably happen upon a situation where 2 or more girls you are pursuing are in the same room at the same time.

Should you try to avoid one or more, they will come running over as if by some magnetic force. This is an extremely delicate and volatile situation.

Tips:

1) Each one has to believe you think she is the most beautiful.
2) Each one needs to think the other girl(s) you are with like her (they hate her).
3) Try to get them to kiss each other if possible (works if they are strippers).
4) If you pull off the three-way French kiss, you are God-like.
5) If two of them work together (and are not strippers), chances are it will implode once they talk.
6) You must excuse yourself and get out of there as soon as possible (bonus points if you somehow manage to kiss all of them goodbye one by one).

(Please add your suggestions here - I'm good but I'm not that good).
Or send them both into a nuclear frenzy and ignore BOTH and talk to a new girl.

I'm not quite sure what the goal of this post was with all the 3 way kissing and stuff, but jealousy can be a tool instead of a negative.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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