"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Handling a dominant chick... [FR + question]

SandHawk

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Last week I spent some time in Budapest, Hungary for the Sziget festival. While on the festival there weren't a lot of hot chicks, and all my approaches didn't result in anything, there was this smoking hot French chick in the hostel the last night.

Had a few pretty piercings, hot all hell, 2 years older than I. In shortness, I wanted to f*ck her brains out, but my mate was ****blocking and I didn't really want to put him in his place because he was totally wasted on booze. At some point she fed me some food with her mouth and gave me a kiss, but also had some very good kino with my friend, so I wasn't very sure if she was into me or that she was just playing the attention wh*re. She gave off the vibe as a female player, knowing she was pretty. We both saw that and exploited it to get her to do things for us(like feeding me, she wanted me to sit next to her, I eventually got her to sit on my lap with some proper "nah" and negging), and even used her sister to get her jealous by ignoring her and talking to the sister.

The moment I came home, I had a message in my Facebook inbox stating how she wanted me. Then she opened me on Facebook chat which for some reason wasn't set to "Offline". She started on how much she liked me and how she thought my friend was annoying and how she wanted me and my blue eyes.

However, chick is dominant as hell, and so am I. I'm used to being the one pinning someone down, tying them up, pulling their hair out. That sort of thing. I intend to bang this girl. I love travelling and seeing something of the world, so I might combine the two*. Go see Paris, and meet up with her while I'm at it, do her, and then leave for home.

But, are there any things I should look out for? This girl is pretty dominant and used to guys crawling for her. I refuse to crawl for a girl, and I'm the one holding her down. Anyone experience on how to handle this one?

* I'm aware of my other thread and my financial issues, so thre's a chance I won't be able to travel for a long time. Normally I'm travelling to a different country once a month for a weekend, usually alone.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Strelok

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If she was dominant in a neutral place just wait to see her in her own court.

Do you really think it's a good idea to go in her city or even worse be her guest? do you realise that you will give her all the power on you?
She will decide what to eat and when,it will be hard to isolate or move her cause you're not comfortable with the place.

I did this mistake years ago and trust me,the sex wasn't worth the annoyment or maybe it's just me to like passive girls.
If you're short on money(so no escape route) and she is the rich one paying for everything you risk even more.
It's your choice anyway,you could find paradise or hell according to your tastes.
 

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Give her more options cuz he might rebel to any one routed suggestions you make
 
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