"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Handing out hot chicks your number

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Would this work?

You see a fkn hot ***** on train or something. She's standing away from you, you smile at her. She smiles back. It's not really the best conditions of picking up.

As you are getting ready to get off at your stop, you walk past her and say 'Call me some time' and hand her a piece of paper with your number...

Any one tried this? Got any calls?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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miba said:
Would this work?

You see a fkn hot ***** on train or something. She's standing away from you, you smile at her. She smiles back. It's not really the best conditions of picking up.

As you are getting ready to get off at your stop, you walk past her and say 'Call me some time' and hand her a piece of paper with your number...

Any one tried this? Got any calls?
Yeah,

What I suggest is having little business-like cards, something ****y and funny on it, and your number.

I've done it to chicks in cars at a traffic intersection.
 

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Uhhh... Business card screams a) player, he's going to use me b) total dork

carry a crayon and a napkin and draw a little picture with the number. make her smile. chicks love that stuff.

conversely, draw a picture with the crayon and hand her the napkin to write her number on.
 
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Quiksilver said:
Uhhh... Business card screams a) player, he's going to use me b) total dork

carry a crayon and a napkin and draw a little picture with the number. make her smile. chicks love that stuff.

I can see that working :rockon:


but giving the chick your number is something you should not resort to. chicks rarely ever call, if you're giving them your number you better not be expecting anything back.
 

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yeah she'd probably like just wipe her mouth with the napkin and throw it away :p cause most chicks like to know you at least a little before deciding anything... it's like she doesn't know anything about you so shes not really interested, and she has no motivation to find out anything about you lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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this is miba speaking here. he's the one who's obsessed bout that one train girl.

you know...the one you were planning on making a false msn name for? you know... the one you were going to talk to pretending to be someone else? the... the one you were going to message and talk to her on a different name and find out facts about her and then talk to her on your real name and talk to her about herself? you know...? tell her a colorful story? a beginning, middle, end? something to keep her interests up? you know? the one that you see once a year? the one you found out stalkerishly that she doesn't have a boyfriend? the one you wanted to move from internet to phone to SEXY TIME?

well thats great. i'm sure you'll do wonderful.
 
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You don't write your number on the napkin with the picture. You tell her to write HER number down after you draw a portrait for you to "remember her by"
(the stick figure)
 

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Michele said:
this is miba speaking here. he's the one who's obsessed bout that one train girl.

you know...the one you were planning on making a false msn name for? you know... the one you were going to talk to pretending to be someone else? the... the one you were going to message and talk to her on a different name and find out facts about her and then talk to her on your real name and talk to her about herself? you know...? tell her a colorful story? a beginning, middle, end? something to keep her interests up? you know? the one that you see once a year? the one you found out stalkerishly that she doesn't have a boyfriend? the one you wanted to move from internet to phone to SEXY TIME?

well thats great. i'm sure you'll do wonderful.
I agree. Add towards the fact that he constantly flames people and it's a wonder why he's still here.
 

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that plan is low and he'd be completely fake..
 

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it'd only work if you're crazy good looking. and even then probly 50-50 at best
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dude, u need help. chicks will almost never call. Guys are the ones with the initiative. And the train isnt that bad to pick up. Just say something like "Excuse me miss, Im wondering if this cologne im trying is good or not..." Something like that.
 

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Michele said:
this is miba speaking here. he's the one who's obsessed bout that one train girl.

you know...the one you were planning on making a false msn name for? you know... the one you were going to talk to pretending to be someone else? the... the one you were going to message and talk to her on a different name and find out facts about her and then talk to her on your real name and talk to her about herself? you know...? tell her a colorful story? a beginning, middle, end? something to keep her interests up? you know? the one that you see once a year? the one you found out stalkerishly that she doesn't have a boyfriend? the one you wanted to move from internet to phone to SEXY TIME?

well thats great. i'm sure you'll do wonderful.
buahahahahahahahaha! f'in hilarious..... i think "Sexy Time!" is going to go down as a classic.
 

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Michele said:
this is miba speaking here. he's the one who's obsessed bout that one train girl.

you know...the one you were planning on making a false msn name for? you know... the one you were going to talk to pretending to be someone else? the... the one you were going to message and talk to her on a different name and find out facts about her and then talk to her on your real name and talk to her about herself? you know...? tell her a colorful story? a beginning, middle, end? something to keep her interests up? you know? the one that you see once a year? the one you found out stalkerishly that she doesn't have a boyfriend? the one you wanted to move from internet to phone to SEXY TIME?

well thats great. i'm sure you'll do wonderful.

LMFAO I can't exactly talk but that was funny!

"the one you wanted to move from internet to phone to SEXY TIME?" LMAO

LOL
 
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