handing arguments

[dointhingsright]

k well I just got in my first kind of big argument with my current girl. I like this one allot opposed to the others. At this point i would normally say whatever and move on. I don’t want to move on here. It started over me ditching her. we hung out every night of the week and I thought it would have been good for me to go out with my friends so i did. i ended up going over this girls house with a few friends. she doesn’t like the girl so she got mad but at the same time she was hanging out with this random kid I don’t know. it just ended up with us saying we were going to talk about it tomorrow night and work it out. How should I handle this? What would the ideal DJ or alpha male do? Say sorry?


- one more thing is it afc like to put some lovey song lyrics in your aim profile regarding your girl or would that just be a turn off for her.

 

[Dizzy]

Always big the bigger man and try to squash it. Dont apologize, but just end it. Kids today fight over the most stupidest sh!t.

 

[BRYCEicl]

Stick to one thing, and ride it through. I don't think you should change your story.

The best way to win an argument with a girl is to now argue.

The best way to avoid an argument,

is to not get involved.

 

[AFI336]

definitely agree with BRYCE, don't change your position on the situation.

 

[oakraiderz2]

What exactly is she mad about?? Its a gay fukin reason ill tell you that right now. If she can hang out a guy and its JUST them too, then i think she needs to hype the hell down. Its not like you and the girl she doesnt like were alone and had a chance to do stuff. Just dont say sorry, you didnt intentially go to her house so your girl needs to be set straight.

 

[Sax God]

I agree with oakraiderz2. If she can hang out alone with a guy, you can hang out with a girl in a group setting. Tell her to relax; afterall, you have witnesses that nothing happened with you and the chick, your girl doesn't have any witnesses to what happened with her and that guy...

 

[dointhingsright]

she is just mad cause she thinks the girl is trying to break us up. im still not going to stop hanging out with her because i have been friends with this other girl for awhile. im just going to tell her lets forget about it and move on. should i tell her i want to meet this other kid she has been hanging out with cause i have no idea who he is or should i just stay out of it and trust her?

 

[drixsa]

goin he tips forum and look for RED FLAGS by bungopony i believe

this girl may be a psyco

ad why the hell are you hanging out with her every day?
-a DJ should not have all that free time, espcially not for one person

and about the love lyrics, i think its quite gay and shows no originality to put someone elses lyrics in your own profile, though they may embrace how you feel, write your own

 

[heteropedro]

Shouldnt Don juans not be getting into arguments?

 

[drixsa]

No, arguments happen a lot its unavoidable

i usually win ALL my arguments only because thats my persona

a take-crap-from-no-one persona

there is a way to be strong and silent as well

you can be wrong though about certain things, as long as you arent hypocritical its all good

 

[dbot]

Sorry guys I kind of disagree with you here. If you know you made a mistake, then say you're sorry and mean it. It takes a bigger man to apologize and admit he's wrong than to stubbornly oppose someone even if it makes you look stupid.

If you do apologize, do it right. Don't sound desperate or anything like that.