Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

Hand aches/pains when using dumbells?

Eternal_water

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 12, 2012
Messages
899
Reaction score
51
Does anyone else have this problem?

When doing flyes on a pec dec machine or bench press with a barbell my hands are absolutely fine, no pain whatsoever. When doing dumbell flyes or dumbell bench press however the ache in my hands is the limiting factor.

The pain in the hands builds up to too much and I have to stop way before the target muscles have reached failure.

I'm right handed and its mainly my left hand that hurts the most.
Have you ever had this issue with dumbells?
Do the hands adapt to the dumbells over time so you can reach failure with the target muscles?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
17,577
Reaction score
6,360
Age
50
Location
midwestern cow field 40
Make sure you don't have carpal tunnel: http://www.webmd.com/pain-management/carpal-tunnel/physical-exam-for-carpal-tunnel-syndrome

Otherwise, it is probably just inflammation of some sort. "If it hurts, don't do it" sounds like a child's advice, but I have had very respected doctors tell that to me.

I know everyone seems to like weights better, but you might be able to do those exercises with the giant rubber band things by attaching them to a strap on your wrist. That would transfer the weight off your fingers and hand.
 
Top