So been seeing this chick for a few weeks. Met in the club shes had a pretty high interest level in terms of texting, arranging plans with me. We hung out at her apartment two weeks ago and I was trying to escalate. Making out no prob, coping feels, but everytime I tried touching that puss, she pushed me away saying not now. Ended up getting a nice bj that night so not all was lost. Next week on a Sunday she invited me over. More of the same thing, every time I tried to touch her, no go. Throughout the course of the night I eventually got her on the bed and fingers inside her for at least 3 minutes. I'm thinking it's game on and whip it out. Again as I go to pull her pantys off, she's telling me it's not right now and blah blah blah. All excuses, which I get, but have any of you guys ran into this before. This chick seems like she's into punishment or some **** or she just loves seeing me suffer. Any point on continuing trying with her
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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For all you know she's just finished piping some other dude or something. Don't fight those things man, if she's blowing you be happy with that. Remember what she does with you she's doing with other dudes also. When a woman gets alot of traffic her pus smells, does she have a little funk down there?